the worst day of your life won’t be the day you get your heart broken or lose millions.
it’ll be the day you realise that you were lying to yourself this entire time.
you made things harder for yourself for no reason.
you squandered money and opportunities for nothing.
you realise the self sabotaging behaviours you had and try to untangle it all.
you look back at once in a lifetime opportunities that you fumbled and wish you could “run it back”.
you remember sums of untold money that you wasted and it aches.
it’s like an awakening or rebirth. less esoteric, more pragmatic.
i’ve seen this happen to those around me making millions and those around me stuck in a cycle of loss.
the key when you get here is to stop dwelling on what could have been and what you’ve missed out on.
all you can do is look at where you are now and vow to never be the reason why you lose again.
if you lose, let it be because of factors outside of yourself. never let it be you.
this happened to me once.
i woke up and felt as though years of my life were lived as a fraud and it broke me.
i questioned every belief i had about myself for months.
until i decided to stop dwelling and start winning.
i haven’t looked back since. each time i find myself falling down that path of self imposed loss, i catch myself.
i remind myself of the consequences and what i risk in the process.
once you learn to overcome your self sabotaging loser behaviours and live in congruence with your beliefs
you’ll learn that the worst day of your life was equally the best day of your life.