DON’T ask me for advice 😭! I support divorce, disowning family, blocking mfs mid-conversation, burning bridges with everybody still standing on them & disappearing without explanation !
it’s supposed to be hard. you want the outcome but you want it to be comfortable and easy and it just doesn't work like that. anything worth having is going to take a lot out of you. that’s the point. there will be obstacles. you will be tired. if you could get it without being entirely exhausted, everyone would be great. look around. they aren't.
I saw a post that said:
“I think being forced to be hyper independent as a child has caused me to be irrationally angry with any adult who needs their hand held through anything they do.”
And I felt that in my soul.
I love people who have survived enough to become strange instead of cruel. Give me the person with peculiar rituals. Too many books. A bizarre sense of humor. Three different lives already lived. An oddly specific obsession. A softness they had every excuse to lose. Those are my people.