Sitting and Thinking… Listening, too.
Nostalgia, for Some Thing. Feeling a Mood.
Something Cerebral… Chords on my Nerves.
Intensity, sparkling. Life is God.
Giacomo Casanova had no modern status symbols, yet women of every type pursued him.
Rich, poor, married, young, older, the pattern held.
The pull came from how he conducted himself, not from what he owned.
The first principle is:
If I was an SDR starting my first sales role today, here's how I'd become the number one rep in 90 days.
This is what I did at Terminus to become one of the top reps and what I coach inside my B2B outbound program for tech companies inside Sales Team Six.
5 moves:
How can you NOT believe in God when octopuses dream and otters have a favorite rock they carry around in a little skin pocket and cows have best friends and bees are out there communicating the coordinates of flowers through dancing and they have regional dialects?
Cats are purring at frequencies associated with bone healing? Forests get absolutely incinerated and respond by growing flowers? Dolphins literally invent names for themselves and yell them across the ocean? Penguins are waddling around Antarctica looking for the perfect rock to give their partner?
CROWS REMEMBER YOUR FACE. THEY TELL OTHER CROWS ABOUT YOU. THEY TELL THEIR CHILDREN ABOUT YOU. YOU CAN HAVE GENERATIONAL BEEF WITH A BIRD. I NEED YOU TO UNDERSTAND THE SIGNIFICANCE OF THIS.
Goats have accents. Rats laugh when you tickle them. Elephants mourn their dead. Whales make songs and then OTHER WHALES LEARN THE SONG and suddenly everybody across the ocean is singing the new song.
Monarch butterflies are born knowing how to fly thousands of miles to a place they have never been.
Sea turtles hatch out of an egg, immediately sprint toward an ocean that they have never seen, disappear into it for like 3 decades and then somehow come back to the same beach they hatched on.
Birds can see colors that we humans can’t see. There are colors out there right now that we don’t even get to know about.
There are sea slugs that eat algae and use the chloroplast/chlorophyll and then are just like…photosynthesizing. And they’re super adorable.
There are mushrooms communicating underground. There are seeds sitting in the dirt for decades like “no actually I will wait. It’s fine.”
Squirrels plant trees because they forget where they put their snacks. Relatable.
A CATERPILLAR GOES INTO A LITTLE BAG THAT IT CREATES ITSELF AND DISSOLVES MOST OF ITS BODY INTO ORGANIC GOO AND REARRANGES ITSELF, GROWS WINGS AND THEN LEAVES. WHY IS THIS NOT MORE BEAUTIFULLY TERRIFYING TO PEOPLE??
And you’re telling me a tiny acorn knows how to become a huge tree? It just has a blueprint inside itself?
Your body started as ONE CELL.
ONE.
And that cell divided itself into a brain that can think about its own existence and eyes that can look at stars and hands that can hold somebody else’s hands and a heart that runs on electricity without you even asking it to?
The iron in our blood was made inside a star??
We are walking around on a wet rock covered in bioluminescent oceans and singing whales and laughing rats and birds holding lifelong grudges and flowers exploding out of fire and somehow we’re supposed to act like this is a normal place to live?
We’re supposed to act like this is all just a random, accidental sequence of events?
Porn and doomscrolling aren’t even that bad for you…
They’re both downstream effects of a much bigger problem:
You sitting alone on your phone in the first place.
No truly fulfilled person wants the novelty of cheap dopamine…
You should have:
- People to see
- Places to be
- Things to build
- Someone to love
The only reason you’re frying your brain cells is because your life is unserious…
Your addictions in general are never the issue;
It’s in your human nature to use addiction as anesthesia for a life you don’t want to be present for…
That’s why addiction exists (the utility is blindness from a reality we don’t want).
“Fix your life” isn’t the advice here (most don’t even know where to begin);
Start by acting all day.
Will feel completely foreign…
But you’re either working, walking, exercising, or socializing;
From wake up, until bed.
Zero chilling…
Most can afford to do this because they’ve been chilling for the better part of a of a decade.
Do it today.
people love talking about love at first sight, like you’re supposed to see someone once and immediately know they’re the person for you.
i don’t believe that.
i didn’t love you the first time i saw you. i didn’t even know you well enough to love you. there were no fireworks or dramatic moments. you were simply a person i met, and i thought maybe we’d become friends.
then, slowly, without me noticing when it happened, you became someone i couldn’t imagine my life without. somewhere along the way, friendship became attachment, attachment became affection, and affection became love. there was no movie-worthy moment where everything suddenly clicked. love just grew quietly until one day i realized how deeply i had fallen. maybe that’s how most beautiful things happen. they become important before you even realize they’re happening.
Here is the next level.
You do not need to "vibrate higher".
You need to vibrate better.
With clear intention.
With laser precision.
There is a difference.
And it changes everything about how you interact with the field.
Think about a radio.
You do not get your favorite station by turning up the volume. You get it by tuning to the exact frequency.
Louder does not help.
Higher does not help.
👉 Only accuracy truly matters.
Your operating system works the same way.
The field we explored several posts ago (the ether, the quintessence, the substance that fills 99.9999% of every atom in your body) is not passive.
👉 It is responsive.
It does not reward intensity.
It responds to specificity.
And that changes the entire game.
Most people treat vibration like a ladder.
Joy is high.
Fear is low.
The goal is to climb.
But frequency is not a ladder.
👉 It is a dial.
Joy is not above fear.
It is a different station.
Prosperity is not above scarcity.
It is a different frequency.
Love, health, creativity, abundance.
Each one is a distinct signal.
A specific coordinate on the dial.
When you try to "go higher," you are spinning the dial without choosing a station.
You get noise.
Static.
Fragments of signal from every frequency at once.
When you choose ONE frequency and lock onto it, the field responds.
Not because you earned it.
Not because you climbed high enough.
👉 Because you finally gave your operating system a clear instruction.
Here is the mechanism.
Your heart generates the strongest electromagnetic field in your body.
It is measurable.
It extends several feet beyond your skin.
Researchers at the HeartMath Institute have documented that this field changes pattern based on your emotional state.
Not your thoughts.
Your emotional state.
When you feel gratitude, the heart produces a coherent wave pattern.
Smooth.
Organized.
Measurable on an EKG.
But stagnant. No where near love, health, wealth; or the precise baseline you truly wish to experience.
When you feel frustration, the pattern becomes erratic. Jagged. Disordered.
The field does not read your affirmations. It reads your signal. And your signal is generated by the emotional frequency your heart is broadcasting.
And this is why someone can repeat "I am abundant" ten thousand times and still feel broke.
The words say one thing.
The heart broadcasts another.
And the field responds to the broadcast, not the script.
So how do you tune?
Not by thinking your way there.
By choosing what comes next, and truly feeling your way there.
Step 1: Name the frequency.
Not "higher." Specific. What is the station? Joy. Prosperity. Love. Health. Creative flow.
Pick one.
The precision is the power.
Step 2: Find the feeling first.
Do not wait for the circumstance to generate the emotion.
Generate the emotion to call in the circumstance.
Remember a moment when you genuinely felt that frequency. Not conceptually. Physically.
Let your body recall what joy actually feels like in your chest, your hands, your posture. Your nervous system does not distinguish between a recalled experience and a current one. When you find the feeling, your heart begins broadcasting that coherent pattern.
Step 3: Hold the station.
This is where most people lose it. They tune in for thirty seconds and then check their phone.
The field needs sustained signal. Not hours. Minutes.
But real, felt, uninterrupted minutes where your entire system is broadcasting one clear frequency.
Clear your space. Close your eyes. Imagine yourself in that state. And feel it in your bones. Stay there.
Step 4: Trust the response.
You already know how to read the signals. The numbers. The tones. The patterns. They will shift when your frequency shifts. Not because you wished harder. Because you tuned more precisely.
You are not climbing a ladder.
You are operating a dial.
And the ether responds to the station you choose.
The ancient traditions understood this.
The Vedic sages did not teach "raise your vibration." They taught Bhakti. Devotional focus on one specific frequency of consciousness until the practitioner became indistinguishable from it.
The Hermetic tradition said, "As within, so without." Not "as high, so high." The correspondence is between precision of inner state and precision of outer reflection.
The Sufi mystics spun in circles not to go higher but to reach a specific ecstatic frequency where the boundary between self and field dissolved.
Every tradition that understood the ether understood the same principle.
The field does not measure altitude. It matches frequency.
Choose yours.
Feel it.
Carry it.
You are more powerful than you know.
📡🧬🔥
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🔖 Bookmark this for next time you need a reminder on how to come home. Your dial is in your hands.
A woman came home and said:
"A guy at the gym gave me his number today."
"Okay."
"He said if I ever get bored of you, I should call him."
"Alright."
"He also said I could do better."
"..."
"You're not even going to ask if I kept his number?"
"No."
"Why not? Doesn't that bother you?"
"No."
"You're not going to fight for me?"
"Why would I?"
"Because you love me."
"I do love you."
"But I don't compete with other men for a woman who's supposed to be committed to me."
"If another man thinks he has a chance, it's usually because something made him believe he does."
"And if I have to fight for your attention, your loyalty, your time, or your respect, then I've already lost something I shouldn't have to fight for."
"So no, I'm not going to compete."
"If you want him, choose him."
"If what we have means that little to you, then he can have you."
Because the truth is:
A woman who genuinely values her relationship doesn't come home excited about another man's number.
And a man with self-respect doesn't beg to be chosen.
Irrespective of appearances, father wounds are the rule rather than the exception in women. Whether they are consciously aware of this or not, most women require refathering to have their previously buried unmet developmental needs met as adults so they can fully come into themselves, and you would be harder pressed to find a woman who was not parentified, neglected, deprived, coddled or spoiled in some way than you would to find one raised well enough she bears no such scars.
When a woman looks for a man she looks for her father, not just in terms of the qualities she admires, but likewise in terms of the qualities he lacked that she needed. So she does not search for an identical copy of him, but instead subconsciously looks for the refined, idealised and improved version of him, with any man able to embody that effectively becoming the love of her life. She had no choice, control or say in choosing her father - she had to live with her mother's choice - but she does get to choose her husband - which aside from the erotic component, follows functionally the same underlying intergender dynamic. She wouldn’t want to marry a man she doesn’t think would make a good father to their children, so if he can be a good father to them, then he can be a good father to her - in fact, it is precisely how he fathers her which informs her whether he would be a good father to them.
In essence, through a parallel underlying intergender dynamic, your wife is in many ways functionally your first child. She is the first one you emotionally contain and provide structure and guidance for, and you will, unless you wish to leave the bill for another man as her father left it to you, do the same for your own daughters and do it well lest the cycle repeats.
It’s not socially acceptable or polite for a woman to say “I want my husband to refather me” but the reality is, this is more often than not precisely what a true, deep and lasting love requires - otherwise she brings her parental wounds into the relationship, and the adaptations and methods she learned to deal with her father are applied to her lover - with often disastrous effect.
Mystery is one of the fastest ways to lose appeal once it disappears.
Most men talk too much, reveal too early and leave nothing unresolved.
Women notice the absence of open loops long before they can name it.
The first principle is:
People catch feelings for you so quickly, until they realise there’s actually more to you than what they first saw. They like the way you look. They like the attention, the chemistry, the excitement of something new. Then they get to know you. They realise you have a brain. You’re deeply empathetic. You have your own opinions, ambitions, your own life. You’re independent. You’re genuine. You have depth they can’t reduce to attraction. And suddenly, the energy changes. I’ve always said, people like the idea of me, but sometimes they don’t know what to do with the real me once they get close enough to see all of her. I’m exhausted by being desired initially, only to watch someone become intimidated when they realise I’m not just someone they can admire from a distance. I have my own success, my own standards, my own direction and I’m not looking for someone to complete me. I didn’t give up on dating because I have nothing to offer. I gave up because I’m tired of watching people want the fantasy of me, only to become uncomfortable with the woman I actually am.
Across my life I have met, spoken to and shared very close proximity with a wide range of elite performers, people who have made lots of money, people who are very artistic, very humourous, amazing codes, brilliant traders, people who are excellent at talking to women and who are excellent conversationalists, the list goes on
Some of these people are overtly conscious about their decision to be great at certain things, some people are naturally gifted at other things or so atleast it would seem to the naked eye; but there's a higher class of performance I have observed throughout this class of already elite individuals
There is a distinct class of individual who purposely, completely consciously let go of their "self" in some capacities and fully blend with what must be done, they are formless in approach and unrelenting in will, they have a deeper spiritual spine of setting out on a voyage to accomplish some creation
Some degree of expression, some lofty goal and then completely deleting the concept of segregation from their task and happiness, I think this is a deeply necessary thing to discuss, most people complete work to get some form of end of the rainbow moment, now i will be able to rest I finally got a beautiful woman to fall in love with me, now I hit 100k a month, now the climb is over, you can insert whatever goal there is here
I believe after thorough observation; creation itself is part of living well, true contentment results in authorship, beauty, creation, strength, sincerity, withholding your gifts is the sign of a dying organism
Because of the truest expression of this idea, within reason I genuinely advocate for a very specific brand of hedonism, there is a specific taste to hedonism initially which I believe matters quite profoundly on how it should successfully rewire the individual for greater heights, and yes ultimate achievement doesnt matter to most people we know that but if you're following this account, the chances are thats simply not true
Once you really go up to the highest levels there is a specific nothingness you will touch which is a beautiful pedulum balanced in the midst of the air, as you wander through the 5 star hotel, dressed in beautiful clothes and premium fragrances swirling around you, the girl next to you smiling and showing you something silly on her phone; internally you recognise this is a truly beautiful moment and you are enjoying it/grateful for it, you touched the highest heights and there is truly an immovable degree of swagger to this expression, but in the middle of that you recognise that there is only a certain amount of pleasure you will ever be able to derive from these angles
There are beautiful relics of wisdom and enjoyment to be touched via walking into these spaces and blessing them with your own inner spirit and aura, whilst recognising that these spaces can never truly make you the man you need to be to continue superceding them, the answers ironically are not found in the palaces, they are found in the dark, then using those pieces you may just exalt yourself spiritually for so long that those palaces are universally dragging you forwards due to your committment to your kingdom, the deeper your committment to upholding a standard within, the more sure God will be to make sure he respects that committment externally because those who come into contact with you can feel that these environments do not hold you, nor are you beholden to them
Once genuinely experienced, something useful can happen: the fantasy loses its monopoly over your imagination and you can truly anchor your mind to higher spiritual paradigms once again, usually the same things which brought you to the razor edge of life
You carry the kingdom of God within you that permeates any environment, because no matter where you go, the mission within you only continues to expand to hold and actualise the capacity the new environment outlines
The real reward was never about the environment or the beauty, it was the man walking, not the walls that made it special
If you never decide to experience what your work has enabled you to live; you will remain a boy in a mans palace, you have to learn to make those environments defenseless against your stability in your own philosophy, which is impossible if you always view yourself as the man climbing, and never the king laughing down
Work like the man climbing, whilst always knowing you were always meant to be the king, embodying true kingship is one of the ultimate tests if your becoming has materialised into cold hard truth within your nervous system
I built the nervous system that could enter the palace without kneeling to it; most people become materially successful and lose their essence, these walls cannot corrupt what they did not create
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Salespeople walk into interviews and forget they're salespeople.
It's the only interview where the interview and the job are the same thing. An engineer can be great and interview badly, no contradiction. But a rep already knows how to run a thirty minute call with a stranger who's deciding whether to buy.
The problem is most reps treat the interview like a test. They answer what's asked, wait for the next question, hope it goes well. They'd never run a discovery call like that.
So run it like a call. Find out what the hiring manager actually needs before you pitch yourself. Ask better questions than they're asking you. When the objection comes, handle it the way you would on a deal. And close. Ask what the next step is and when.
You've done this a thousand times. Just not with yourself as the product 🏹
there’s something almost overwhelming about finding someone who connects with you on every level. you understand each other emotionally, challenge each other mentally, desire each other physically, feel deeply connected romantically and somehow share the same sense of meaning and values. when all those different kinds of connection exist with one person at the same time, it feels like something much bigger than simply having a crush. that’s the kind of love that makes you understand what being truly in love can feel like.
"Glow-ups" are often just individuals who have been out of alignment returning to themselves as a new incarnation through deep self-work, reflected externally. It is insanely hot because emerging from an underworld pivot usually encompasses a peak period of embodied holistic alignment, and this is devastatingly magnetic, perfect for attracting in that which resonates, before encountering future timelines requiring further iterations.
Highly intelligent outliers with rapid cognition are often misunderstood as being unreliable and insincere due to the sheer speed at which they move internally - this is not to be conflated with the rate at which they convey their internal movements, for many neither verbalise nor externalise at their true internal pace. The way their minds continuously dart and intuitively leap through multiple layers, abstractions, extrapolations, iterations, and permutations makes them live and shapeshift through countless lives and lenses, each of which they not only consciously rotate, examine, and walk around internally, but also experientially simulate and inhabit the relevant sensation, which in that temporal moment, feels utterly authentic, true, and sincere whilst in that timeline, as that version. They've reincarnated through a thousand lives by the time many have pondered through a handful. Thus, their perceived changeability is often misconstrued as erratic volatility by those who move at a different internal pace, they are frequently critiqued as capricious or have had their loyalty questioned, which can be deeply hurtful.
Yet if those who are not of this nature consider the mercurial existence of these outliers, their way of being, they would recognise that the very souls being scrutinised have lived through many seasons, years, or even temporal decades, yet have stayed steadfast, attached, and loyal in their own way, in their dialect, and in the connection by remaining present and sharing their internal travel pins in an effort to maintain the relationship. It is how they signal their intention to stick around, to preserve continuity.
We're so accepting of those who move at the pace society deems as the benchmark, yet many are rarely as open to encompassing those who don't move at this prescribed pace. Food for thought.