I think one of the healthiest things I’ve ever learned is that you should allow others to reintroduce themselves to you, even your closest friends. Give people space to become who they are without assuming you know who they are just bc you’ve been friends/family for years
you deserve emotional safety. you deserve connections that give you grace to honor the complexities of your day-to-day human experience. you don’t have to endure anymore painful lessons and unnecessary hardships to prove your worthiness. you’re worthy right now.
healthy friendships involve not agreeing with every decison the other person makes. they involve telling you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. it comes from a loving place of support for each other’s well-being. true friendships ground you, they don’t enable you
you gotta wake up every day and select your thoughts the same way you’d select your clothing. be consciously aware of the way you’re responding to your circumstances. you don’t have control over your days, but what you DO have control over is the way you respond. your perspective
some women like to wear 25mm lashes, get long nails and experiment with color & others like to only do neutral hair colors and b minimalistic why can’t we just coexist why argue ab what another person wants to do just do u & stop bothering others omg