@soulremembered@annathropoIogy You gotta be marrying an old man. No way someone with a brain could put up with your whining. Let alone put a ring on it.
@certifiedBjir@s_escaperh@Miriam_Bask It’s because most people who actually SEEK this kinda trope in anime usually is attracted to it. This is just their way of justifying liking a blatant depiction of a child. Add onto that, a “mature” child at that. (“She’s 1500 years old, she just looks petite.”)
@slxthkween@cellanies@just__Lexx When dealing with surrogates/egg donation, the donor/surrogate is usually done with involvement once the baby/eggs are given over. The child finding the donor in this case should’ve definitely never happened. The other mom is definitely at some fault here.
@Bundescanclerin@thatgirljo_ And this is why kids usually call their mothers. If they ever have to deal with a dad like you, then they wouldn’t have autonomy to begin with cause it’d be your word only, right?
@razznpin@whataboutnascar@bee_mvtt@Anisazlami@saffisis @fushisauce @wewere_special Calling yourself a mutt then saying you’re justified to use the n word… babe that’s internalized racism. You need to seriously work on that and remove the people around you who think that’s cool. Seriously.
@Anisazlami@whataboutnascar@saffisis @fushisauce @wewere_special “Another person feeling bad” ≠ “I have a razor hidden in my room”
There’s ways to express your feelings without just trauma dumping on people. Also you have to know that some people don’t wanna be helped. That’s why you have people being self-degrading in comments like this.
@Anisazlami@whataboutnascar@saffisis @fushisauce @wewere_special The thing is you’re fighting with people who have went through this. Yes you can sit there and be an encouraging voice, but it’s not your job to do so, especially when you’re recovering from it. You can “be kind to others” and still be affected negatively. Not everyone is healed.
@Anisazlami@whataboutnascar@saffisis @fushisauce @wewere_special 6 years or not, you do not come out and tell a recovered person what you do. It’s not healthy to be brought back to a place you fought hard to get out of. If you wanna risk your health, then more power to you. But not everyone can be kind without falling back into old ways.
@Anisazlami@whataboutnascar@saffisis @fushisauce @wewere_special So what if they recently recovered and now they have that urge again because of the commenter. Would you still want them to help anyway? Other people’s mental health is not your concern, especially when dealing with your own. Plus some people do that to “not feel alone.” Rude.
@XMsMosa@Dcasd1@Someso01@imfynerthanfyne@cc33_rl They’re literally trained to not show emotion while dealing with a client. It’s all for a paycheck and no sympathy involved. That’s why I quit wanting to be a therapist. What’s the point if I can’t show kindness beyond a basic script?
@totalearj@rodotfun@SorareRomar@lort849@MattSumf Obviously you’re dipping. So am I. But as I’m on the road to family, I’m also letting my job know I won’t be coming in. Obviously you prioritize family, but calling in is the right thing to do instead of just leaving. That’s how you lose said job. Previous experience.
@rodotfun@SorareRomar@lort849@MattSumf You calling out of work for an emergency or you just gonna dip? Unfortunately a job is a job. You gotta keep that shit in mind.
@goybeanfarmer@Suzierizzo1 Knock on the door or announce you’re coming in with little girls. I’ve seen it happen all the time due to most public bathrooms only having changing stations in women’s rooms only. Even if they did in a men’s room, I wouldn’t expose them to a men’s bathroom.