@oldenoughtosay@DerCryptaxis My husband’s uncle had a grotesque made of him and installed on Lincoln Cathedral- not sure how often that sort of thing happens in the modern day?
@AnnJohnstone11@MartinSLewis@itvMLshow A local solicitor would be best to talk to. They would probably recommend a Deputy Order for finances and a Will with some form of trust in for yourself. Mencap used to have a list of solicitors they recommend which would be a good starting point for you