𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝

Acts like i doesn't care... but shows up.

[𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝 @LEGENDBANKS]

It's okay, l'll be fine

[𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝 @LEGENDBANKS]

And girls, If you really wanna know the difference between a man who genuinely cares about you and wants to build and one that’s just going to waste your time, I recommend you read my book because that’s exactly what I teach you.

[𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝 @LEGENDBANKS]

Cheating does not begin when two people touch. Sometimes the affair happens long before anybody takes their clothes off.

Let me explain: 1/4

[𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝 @LEGENDBANKS]

They’re discovering that while they thought they were standing inside a relationship with you, part of you had already left the room.

So no, cheating is not only defined by where you put your body. Sometimes the betrayal is where you put your intimacy, your attention, your loyalty, and how hard you worked to make sure that that person you claim to love never saw it.4/4

[𝐁𝐈𝐋𝐋𝐘 @X_Bill_Gl]

When someone says “talk therapy doesn’t work for me”, I’m curious about what they actually tried. Therapy covers a range of approaches with very different aims. If you go into existential therapy wanting a structured programme for reducing panic symptoms, for example, that approach is unlikeky to work for you. A more symptom-focused approach such as CBT might have been a much better fit for what you needed.1/4

[Softboy @softcreateee]

Help me settle a debate! If I say that’s “old folks” ice cream, what flavor am I talking about?? 🤔

[𝐌𝐫.𝐊𝐀𝐋™ @dekim_Kalvino]

My landlord complained that I was bringing too many visitors into the apartment. He said, “This is a private residence, not a hotel. From now on, no more than 2 visitors at a time.”

I agreed.

The following weekend, 14 of my friends showed up...

[𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝 @LEGENDBANKS]

And ladies, if you really want to know the difference between a man who genuinely cares about you and wants to build and one that’s just going to waste your time, I recommend you read my book because that’s exactly what I teach you.

[𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝 @LEGENDBANKS]

If you’re a woman and you cannot get that one situationship out of your head, it might not actually have anything to do with you liking the guy. It might have everything to do with this one little chemical released inside your body called:1/3

[𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝 @LEGENDBANKS]

Maybe you didn’t like him at all, and you’re kind of confused why you can’t get him out of your head. If you understand what oxytocin does to your body, it might have everything to do.3/3

[𝓐𝓺𝓮𝓮𝓵𝓪𝓱🧚🏼 @aqee_sofine]

Why online dating is a pile of garbage

[𝐁𝐈𝐋𝐋𝐘 @X_Bill_Gl]

Your Avoidant Doesn't Text You - But They Won't Let You Go Either

They don't reply for days. You tell yourself it's over. Then a meme appears. A late-night reaction.

A check-in that reignites everything you were trying to bury.

You keep thinking: If they wanted distance, why come back? If they don't care, why watch my stories, reach out, hold the door open just enough? 1/7

[✦ 𝐓𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐥𝐞 ✦ @teeteesunflower]

People always say I’m overly protective of my kids ok but we were at an appointment yesterday and a lady
Who’s kid was 7 came to where my daughter was coloring my daughter is newly 2 she started dumping the crayons out of the box onto the table the seven year old hit the table and screams at her “DONT DO THAT!! What’s wrong with you?” I instantly removed her and the girls mother comes over and was like oh it’s ok just say I don’t like when you do do that and looks to my daughter to apologize.

[𝐁𝐈𝐋𝐋𝐘 @X_Bill_Gl]

AN AVOIDANT CAN MISS YOU DEEPLY AND STILL NEVER REACH OUT.

They can think about you, reread old messages, replay the good moments, and still choose silence.

That is what makes it so brutal.

Their silence starts feeling like proof that you meant nothing, while the truth may be much messier: missing someone and knowing how to stay connected are two completely different skills. 1/7

[Capo @bettcapo]

This got to be the worst era to be homeless in, someone walking by in a suit probably got less money then you do 😂

[𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝 @LEGENDBANKS]

You’re not going to be seeking external opinions, asking, “Hey, do you think this guy likes me? I can’t really tell.”

No. It’s going to be an overwhelming amount of consistency to the point where you’re scared because you’re like, “Why is he doing everything so perfect?”3/3

[𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝 @LEGENDBANKS]

If a man truly loves a woman, he will never leave her wondering where she stands with him.

When a man is all about it, when he really wants her, even in the early stages, when you guys first start getting to know each other, maybe you’ve only been out on a couple of dates, he’s going to be:1/3

[𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝 @LEGENDBANKS]

very consistent.

He’s not gonna let an entire week go by without taking you out on a date. That’s a huge rule that nobody talks about enough.

If 10, 12, 14, 20 days, two weeks goes by and he has not taken you out on a consecutive date, you’re just an option. You are simply just in the background. He’s keeping you around for the attention and maybe the short-term fun.

When a man is really serious about a woman, you’re not going to be confused.2/3