@monster0x0000 Sawa buda, wewe ndiye uliuliza analysis. Iko based on posts na RTs zako pekee. Franco na Ruto walitokea huko. Jidishi na wewe kama haujapenda.
25th June 2024 marked one of the saddest day in Kenya’s modern history. It was a day when courage and cruelty came face to face, but in the end, given the sacrifice of human life, we are left to wonder who won?
The people breached Parliament, but the Finance Bill had already been passed. A betrayal that cuts deeper than any bullet fired yesterday.
#RejectFinanceBill2024 #OccupyParliament
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Supplementary aerial footage @Fidel_tall x Buju
Fundamentalism. Especially in the educated, middle-class circles. Dating was once a curiosity-driven, gracious affair. Now it is a trauma-informed, rigid vetting system. You don't get the benefit of the doubt. No clean slates. No grace: just caution.
And we can't agree to disagree anymore. It is my way or your way. Anything else is toxic. And if you are the patient one who's keen on finding a middle-ground - that it's not me versus you, but us versus the problem - you'll be called manipulative.
Being the good one gets you punished; simply because, for them, a good relationship is them always getting their way. And when you are too good, when you are too patient, then you are after his/her money. Or weak. When you put your foot down, you are too controlling.
It must always be happy too - the relationship. Pleasing and perfect at all times. Anything else is a sign: that means the relationship is not working out. So we don't try at all to make things work. We just ship out at the 1st inconvenience.
We lack individuality as we have been groupies all our lives. When we come face to face with individuality, it feels like an attack on us. You could be as loving as a pet, as dotting as a painter's brushstroke, as patient as a saint in meditation, but she/he will still judge you on the preconceived notions she/he had about your kind.
So you are not just dating them anymore; you are dating their friends too - both offline and online friends. Navigating dating traumas - that you did not cause - and have nothing to do with you as a couple.
Too much power struggle; very little camaraderie.