Entonces fui y me senté, respiré profundo, esta vez no lloré y me dije: ya has pasado por aqui, conoces muy bien el camino, estarás bien, eres fuerte y capaz. Solo date tiempo que todo pasa.
One of the loneliest experiences in adult life is wanting a relationship that is just slightly beyond what the person you love is capable of giving.
Not because they're bad or because they don't care. But because there's a gap between what you need and what they can offer, between the depth you're reaching for and the depth they're able to go and no amount of love on either side closes it.
You've had the conversations. You've explained what you need as clearly and patiently as you possibly can. They've listened, they've tried but it's still not quite there...not quite the emotional presence you need, not quite the level of intimacy you're starving for, not quite the partnership you imagined when you chose this person. Close enough that leaving feels absurd but far enough that staying hurts in a quiet, constant way.
You're allowed to need what you need. And you're allowed to grieve the specific sadness of loving someone who genuinely tries and still cannot give it to you.
I Romani piantavano pini e cipressi ai lati di ogni consolare per consentire ai viaggiatori una frescura continua.
Lo scempio di alberi che si sta facendo in ogni città, ne alza la temperatura media di 4/5 gradi centigradi.
#lariachetira
Unfortunately, I do want a provider. I do want a protector. I do want a leader. I do want a dominant man. I do want emotional maturity and effective communication. I do want mental stability. I do want to be spoiled. I do want self awareness. I do want clingy, obsessed and safe. I do want someone who chooses me every time. And nobody is going to make me feel bad for wanting those things in a partner.
@Kiarup Io uso il bioclin deo control vapo senza profumo. Sudo tanto e ho il sudore che puzza, lo ammetto. Sono terrorizzata per quando non mi funzionerà più 😭
you deserve someone who meets you where you are. not someone you have to pull up to your level. not someone you have to emotionally parent. not someone you have to convince to show up. you deserve mutual effort, mutual awareness, mutual care
I don’t understand why people have normalized suffering in relationships just because they love someone.
Love isn’t enough on its own. You also need respect, reassurance, happiness, and peace of mind. Don’t ignore what’s hurting you, if it’s draining let that shit go !!!
il dolore che provi a non scrivere più o a non cercare più una persona perché sai che è una cosa che vuoi solo tu e all’altra persona non cambia niente sentirti o meno…
I’m gonna get yelled at for saying this… but a lot of women are single because they haven’t met a man who’s better at being a man than they already are.