if you live in your parents basement to chase your dreams youre a loser. if you work until your eyes are bloodshot youre going to burnout young man! if you spend your money on things you enjoy youre irresponsible. save it all? stingy! live on the computer? touch grass. run ironmans and marathons? thats terrible for your joints you know? wake up at 4:30? psycho. sleep in? bum! the game is unwinnable. you will never do it right in the eyes of others. the lane you pick is always wrong. so might as well pick your own. might as well do what makes you happy.