Pay attention to how men, especially "allies," talk about women they don't like, what they think they deserve, what exceptions they make for her. Because they'll think the same about you. You just haven't displeased them yet.
I can literally tell you what’s wrong with the majority of men in bed lmao:
- they skip foreplay or they think foreplay is just them getting a blowjob. They’re not taking the time to build tension with long makeout sessions, touching each other over your clothes, grinding against each other, long oral and hand stuff on each other, kissing each others bodies, etc. They just get hard and then maybe touch you for 90 seconds before they’re like “ok penetration!”. And if you’re a man who cums fast it’s literally insane to skip foreplay
- their dirty talk sucks or is nonexistent. Or they use the same with everyone. I don’t like the same dirty talk as another woman might. For example, if you degrade me or call me a slut/whore I’m leaving lol. You have to talk to your woman to figure out what phrases she enjoys.
- fingering by JAMMING THE FINGERS IN
- penetration happening for too long when there was not enough foreplay to warm up. Women are not like men. Most of us HAVE to be warmed up unless we’re so hot for you that your mere presence makes us wet, and that’s realllly rare. Just jackhammering away for an hour when we never even got properly aroused isn’t any good.
- not touching the clit oh my fucking GOD. So many of you act like it’s a special gift or a little treat to touch the clit during sex despite the fact that it should be fucking standard? SEVENTY FIVE PERCENT of women cannot orgasm regularly simply from PIV penetration!!!
- thinking that “the sex is complete when a man ejaculates”. If she didn’t get off why the fuck did you stop pleasuring her? Do you like having sex that ends without you getting off? Neither the fuck do we.
- asking AFTERR THE SEX if she came?? Are you INSANE?? Why aren’t you asking HOW you can make her cum while you’re still actively having sex and making sure she does before you put your fucking clothes back on and start scrolling the phone???
- ignoring erogenous zones like why are you not touching my breasts, my inner thigh, neck, ears, etc??? And not in the “I’m grabbing this body part because it makes MY boner stiffer” way, in a way that’s pleasurable to HER
@Chime I just need to know why I’m not able to use the mobile deposit feature when I’m already receiving direct deposit 🤦🏾♀️. I got a paper check for some overtime hours I did last week, and for some odd reason am not able to deposit it thru the app. Whyyyy?
@quincylsb@thatgottabecori So why are there so many fatherless children and young children being molested by men? Why are so many children experiencing domestic violence at the hands of their fathers?
@Chime I been receiving direct deposit since October, and mobile check deposit still doesn’t work. I had to open a separate account to deposit a check I received for overtime.
@Uber@Uber_Support Cam someone tell me why my account is under review and why I am being prevented from accessing the funds I’ve EARNED thru both instant cash out AND direct deposit. I’ve been reaching out to y’all since Friday with no real assistance.
@scattycarrot @sharavinaaa What do matching tees have to do with skincare and football? The concept specifically involves white dad and mixed race daughter while she does makeup. And here you are mentioning tshirts.
@_lunadecoco @Airborne173rd01 @alyssaferrera_@sharavinaaa So where are all these videos of blk or mixed race girls and their white dads/stepdads talking about football while doing skincare? They should be abundant, since the concept is so common.