Changing people is not your job. The Almighty does that. Invite them. Be a good role model and show exemplary behaviour. Be patient. Then leave it to the Almighty. Remember, He is the Owner of guidance. He guides whom He wills.
For every pain you endure,
For every fear that grips your heart,
For every worry that keeps you awake,
For every loss that you grieve over,
For anything & everything that you can’t handle,
Leave it to the Lord of the Worlds.
He’s the best disposer of our affairs.
someone who is in love with you won’t try to intentionally hurt you - they won’t consciously cause you pain. however, we’re human: there will be times where we do or say things that hurt each other unintentionally. it’s about growing and learning each other more as a result tbh
4 harsh truths that changed my life:
- not everyone wants to get better
- words are hallow, behavior is true communication
- chronic venting keeps us stuck in cycles
- blaming others serves the ego, and blocks us from creating the life we choose
Fix yourself in such a way that whatever the Almighty sends your way, you’ll be fine. You know it’s His Decree. You know nothing lasts and how temporary this life is.
Money is important, for sure. But you don’t have to go crazy over it. The Almighty has written it for you, there is no need for you to lie, cheat, deceive, resort to fraud, abuse the rights of others just to make some extra bucks. Greed doesn’t pay.
What’s worse than anger? When you feel truly, deeply, disappointed you can’t even look at the face of that person and you don’t even want to talk to them about your disappointment.
Ada study-nya, korban KDRT akan kembali ke abusernya, setidaknya setelah 6-7 kali usaha.
Alasannya beragam, dari hal finansial, bucin dan berharap pelaku berubah, tekanan lingkungan, sampai mental yg udah kadung dirusak abuser.
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