In hospital wards, we doctors see the truth about love.
In one bed:
A wife is vomiting / a husband has melena…
and their partner is there, rubbing their back, cleaning them, not leaving their side.
In the next bed:
A woman is crying in pain… and her husband is least bothered /
A man lies helpless after a stroke… and his wife won’t even do the bare minimum of turning him to prevent bedsores.
Illness doesn’t just test the body.
It exposes people.
Choose your partner carefully.
Never marry a woman you cannot trust when she is angry.
If she is reckless with her words, cruel with her emotions & vindictive when upset, imagine what she will do when you are vulnerable.
Anger reveals character
Pay attention.
7. She doesn’t chase she chooses
She’s comfortable walking away.
That scares men who rely on validation.
Example:
You pull back → she doesn’t beg
She adjusts… or exits.
Reality:
That’s strength, not promiscuity.
After you get married, you’re going to meet ‘better’ people than your spouse. You’re going to meet more good-looking people; kinder and more romantic people; more intelligent and funny people. You will meet people who have in abundance what your partner lacks. The mushy and romanticized idea that your partner will be everything to you, and will satisfy all your needs and wants is idolatry. Contentment in marriage is a virtue not often spoken about.
You must wake up every day appreciating everything your partner is to you, everything they have, their beauty and the things that made you marry them because if you focus on everything they don’t do well, you’ll always meet better people. Protect your heart! See their best part, and always remember that your commitment to marry is more of a duty than it is of mushy feelings. You have to stay committed even on the days you feel your spouse is no longer the best fit for you…
-Buchi
Two clever people can’t fall in love.
True love needs one 'idiot'.
Not the bad kind of idiot.
Not reckless.
Not foolish.
Just emotionally brave enough to look silly.
Because when two clever people meet, love turns into a chess match.
Who texts first?
Who waits longer?
Who cares less?
Who has the upper hand?
Both are smart.
Both are guarded.
Both are quietly afraid of being the one who loves more.
So they analyze instead of feel.
They calculate instead of confess.
They protect instead of lean in.
Enter the ''idiot'.
The one who double texts.
The one who says,
“I miss you” without checking power dynamics.
The one who loves loudly, apologizes first, and risks looking foolish.
The one who forgets the rulebook and follows the heart.
They don’t ask,
“Is this wise?”
They ask,
“Is this honest?”
And that is where love begins.
Because love isn’t a strategy game.
Real love always starts with someone brave enough to be vulnerable first.
Someone willing to care without guarantees.
Someone who risks being hurt just to be real.
And then the other clever person eventually puts down the armour, smiles,
and becomes a little bit of an idiot too.
Love doesn’t need two geniuses.
It needs two humans
and at least one willing to go first.
Who was the 'idiot' in your relationship ?
#relationships
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4 ways men give love:
1. You commit first, then she loves you
2. You give love bit by bit, hoping she returns it
3. You love her fully, then hope she stays
4. When she proves she's worth it, you give her your best
Stick to 1 & 4.
Avoid 2 & 3.