@Latterdaytruth Don't ask if them if they asked the other parent, don't give them the opportunity to lie. Tell them you are going to talk to the other parent so you can decide together. They will see that you and your spouse are untied in decision making. Neither parent becomes the heavy
@TeeplesCY We lived there for 8 years. We drove that road many times, I know exactly where the temple is located. You will hardly notice as you drive by. Church steeples are a defining sight in American towns since the beginning of this country.