Amy Eller

Ain’t no high like the Most High.

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@DavidAFrench Beautifully written article. I found the same to be true in my experience, as well as my daughter’s. It opened our eyes to a world beyond our own and taught us how to love others well, esp those with differing viewpoints. It was a time when our faith became our own & grew.

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@racheljwelcher My sweet daddy was hit by a truck & killed as he mowed his yard last fall. It’s the deepest valley I’ve ever walked thru. Listening to music is a comfort (although I’m just learning to sing again) & I learned to crochet. The Psalms & the book Prayer in the Night have also helped

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@mark_joubert You can do it, little Gus! Lord, we know you give strength to the weary and increase the power of the weak - we ask you to do that in the life of this precious baby and his sweet family!

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@mark_joubert Continuing to check in and pray for each request several times a day. Gus is dearly loved! ❤️

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@mark_joubert Lord, be near and hear our cries. Cause this precious heart to beat on its own. You are able.

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@racheljwelcher @EvanWelcher Thank you, thank you, thank you, Lord! I haven’t commented before, but I’ve been praying! Rejoicing with you, Rachel! ❤️

[Gretchen Ronnevik @garonnevik]

I've made a lot of mistakes, but I have nearly 4 teens now, and I've learned a lot the hard way, and see other parents around me with less kids who are just getting to that stage make the same mistakes I made, so I want to share what I've learned.

If you want to teach your kids to walk in the way of God, you better not leave out teaching them about forgiveness. That's a big deal to God. It's pretty central. I've been thinking about this a lot lately, and the heaviness that comes when you have teenagers, and they misstep, and missteps feel bigger the older they get. It's like there's this ticking pressure that they have to "get it" by the time they're 18, and they're not getting it yet.

Here's the trick I've learned: see them as humans. Not representatives of your family. Not projects. Humans. Made in the image of God, living as both sinner and saint. Struggling just like you.

When I overreact, 99% of the time it's because I worried what people would think, or I was responding out of fear that God wasn't going to be faithful to them in the way they needed.

Allow them to have a bad day. It's something my oldest taught me. As I tell that to other parents, they say "well, what if they have 10 bad days. When do you make it stop?" Like the kids will take advantage of that. Honey, if they have 10 bad days in a row, something bigger is wrong than their attitude. Something major is going on, and thank goodness you can now address it.

Teens these days live in a fish bowl. Everyone has an opinion on their lives. Expectations are everywhere, and forgiveness is uncommon and even unknown in our culture. Be the place they know they can relax, be themselves, and be fully loved. I guarantee you they need it.

Here are some things I have learned the hard way to tell my teens instead of going straight to taking away privileges: "I'm on your side. Always. I'm going to fight for you, even when you're too tired to fight for yourself."

"You don't sound like yourself. It's not like you to lash out. Come here. Sit down, and let's talk about it. We're going to call a thing what it is, and sort out the truth from lies."

"You sound stressed, and what you said hurt my feelings. That's not ok. So here's what we're going to do. Sit and eat some food, take a timeout, relax, and then come back and let's talk about it again once you've had a chance to catch your breath."

"Being a teenager is rough. I don't envy you. I see you. I'm trying to help you. You know, it's going to be 2 steps forward, and 1 step back, but I don't want that to discourage you. That's normal. You're going to make it."

"You're shying away from the truth, and that's a mistake. Because you're afraid I won't love you if I knew the truth, and I'm here to stubbornly show you that there is no truth that could stop me from loving you. Sometimes it takes courage to walk in truth. But it's so good when you do--because that's when relationships get deep and mean something. And I want that kind of relationship with you."

"We're going to work hard because it's good for our mind, our body, and our relationship. We take care of each other in this family."

Allow your kids to fail, especially when they're still at home. Help them learn to deal with failure. That's a life skill. Do you want them to deal with failure by deep shame?

Your teens are tired, hungry, and dealing with a flood or hormones. Have compassion on that. They are aching for encouragement and hugs and food more than you realize.

Look at the prodigal son. "When he came to himself." Basically, when he came back to reality, out of his fantasy, he started remembering who his dad was. His dad loved him, and he didn't question that for a moment.

He didn't come home because he was that ashamed. He came home because he had hope.

Give your teens hope. They need hope so much. Hope is how they get up when they've been knocked down. Not shame.

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

Someone is in need of attention this morning. https://t.co/zzBcit2lc2

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@tweetraychang CT’s new podcast The Bulletin. It’s so good!

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@emschumacher I’ve never met a taco I didn’t like.

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@racheljwelcher Oh…my….goodness!! What a little ray of sunshine!! Thank you for sharing her with us! My “babies” are college-age and it brings me so much joy to see all of her cuteness!

[Amanda Held Opelt @AmandaHeldOpelt]

I know we all look back on the Incarnation w/ a lot of longing & adoration.

But it’s good to remember that almost everyone Jesus encountered while he was on earth was disappointed in him as Messiah.

He was too lowly, too radical, not radical enough, too welcoming...

Except…

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@KSPrior My streak ended today, too. 😩😩

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

Yeeeesssss 💌📫

[kim windyka @kimlw]

hot girl summer is over, it’s time for shopgirl fall

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@emilyaclark @TCTransformers @DerwinLGray I just love this, my friend!! 🙌🏼

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@ellerjk this is an event we could enjoy together.

[Lloyd Legalist @LloydLegalist]

My two favorites things…combined?! I’m there.

[Laurazepam @andlikelaura]

my favorite part about health insurance is how your teeth and eyeballs are add-ons

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@LloydLegalist Gloria Estefan

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@DPCassidyTKC So thankful to read this update. Our family is walking through a similar trial and your words (and His Words) bring such comfort. Where could we go, but to the Lord? Continuing to pray for you!

[Amy Eller @mama_needs_anap]

@Biochem_Jim Happy Birthday to my favorite nephew! 🥰🥰