Nobody is coming to save you.
Not your friends. Not your family. Not the government
They can offer advice and tools.
But at the end of the day, it's up to you to change your mind and act regardless of how you feel.
A thread of advice you need to hear:
love may not always be easy. love takes work. it is a commitment to consistently grow alongside your partner while offering support. life stressors may pull us away from love naturally. working with your partner to prioritize reconnection in your dynamic is key.
One thing people need to understand about extremely kind, nice, and loving people, is that their other side is just as extreme. It's the hell they survive that makes them gentle. Don't mistake their self-control for weakness. The beast in them is sleeping, not dead.
@DIVINEOPAQUE My rising, sun & moon sign are all here. Lol. If he finds a way to get a hold of me, for the third time I’ll give him a second chance.
Depression looks different for everyone. Not everyone who is depressed cries and looks sad all the time. Some people express tough emotions by pacing, being mean or agitated, even maybe by being super kind and letting people walk all over them. EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT
Pisces placements have mastered being an open but closed book. They tell you just enough to make you think you know everything about them. They love their privacy.
As a sensitive person, I’ve learned to only share my feelings w/people who have a high level of emotional intelligence. Otherwise, I feel mishandled and shut down completely.