@player1one_@Lifeless_Ronin@Melody211939673 So I guess when I said it’s healthier to have sex than not for a relationship. I’m just talking about a relationship with the two people actually enjoy each other and like each other.
@player1one_@Lifeless_Ronin@Melody211939673 Yeah that all makes sense. I just think that if you’re dreading sex like that, then you don’t love the person you’re with and you probably should stop being with them. It shouldn’t feel like that. I’ve been there, I know those feelings and it’s awful and yes, traumatic.
@shrubz19@KillaKreww I would think he'd be LESS comfortable being with a visibly trans person. gay is more accepted and normalized than trans. And he doesn't seem like he gets uncomfortable about much. i don't know.
@imchai0@KillaKreww that's what I'm saying! you aren't going to find gay men wanting to date people that are attempting to look like women. people act like this is a crazy thought.
@player1one_@Lifeless_Ronin@Melody211939673 probably. i think in a healthy relationship that will be kept in mind as well. Although it's healthier to have sex than not. for the relationship.
@007Bam__@geetz__romo@KillaKreww it was an old article i saw from 2025. and i admit i was mistaken. trans was #2 after lesbian. This was pornhub's year-in-review data
@shrubz19@KillaKreww I agree with you for the most part. gender isn't a thing anyway. it's just hard for me to imagine a gay man dating someone who is trying to look like a woman that isn't interested at all in anyone who looks like a man. and this is a not uncommon distinct predilection