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Yeah I’m just going to stay out of it today.

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@SKAdavide8 @KillaKreww @BasilianThought Thanks for the rec!

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@player1one_ @Lifeless_Ronin @Melody211939673 So I guess when I said it’s healthier to have sex than not for a relationship. I’m just talking about a relationship with the two people actually enjoy each other and like each other.

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@player1one_ @Lifeless_Ronin @Melody211939673 Yeah that all makes sense. I just think that if you’re dreading sex like that, then you don’t love the person you’re with and you probably should stop being with them. It shouldn’t feel like that. I’ve been there, I know those feelings and it’s awful and yes, traumatic.

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@SKAdavide8 @KillaKreww Those are very valid points. You’re absolutely right

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@007Bam__ @geetz__romo @KillaKreww Yours is most searched. Mine was most viewed so maybe that’s the difference.

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@007Bam__ @geetz__romo @KillaKreww I’m not making it up look

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@xioniosn5 @KillaKreww that makes a modicum of sense I suppose.

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@shrubz19 @KillaKreww I would think he'd be LESS comfortable being with a visibly trans person. gay is more accepted and normalized than trans. And he doesn't seem like he gets uncomfortable about much. i don't know.

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@xioniosn5 @KillaKreww but he also doesn't like people that look like men. that's what's throwing me off.

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@SKAdavide8 @KillaKreww maybe not

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@InfamousJawbone @KillaKreww it's kind of a conundrum. i've been told im making it too complicated though.

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@ArsenioCorridor @KillaKreww oh well!

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@wrap_check @KillaKreww i suppose that makes sense

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@HotepBond @KillaKreww ding ding ding you're right! the article i was thinking of was from 2025 and trans was second after lesbian.

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@imchai0 @KillaKreww that's what I'm saying! you aren't going to find gay men wanting to date people that are attempting to look like women. people act like this is a crazy thought.

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@player1one_ @Lifeless_Ronin @Melody211939673 probably. i think in a healthy relationship that will be kept in mind as well. Although it's healthier to have sex than not. for the relationship.

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@007Bam__ @geetz__romo @KillaKreww it was an old article i saw from 2025. and i admit i was mistaken. trans was #2 after lesbian. This was pornhub's year-in-review data

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@shrubz19 @KillaKreww but i guess that's me complicating it!

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@shrubz19 @KillaKreww I agree with you for the most part. gender isn't a thing anyway. it's just hard for me to imagine a gay man dating someone who is trying to look like a woman that isn't interested at all in anyone who looks like a man. and this is a not uncommon distinct predilection

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@lydiaoakleyy @KillaKreww so is pansexual just people that are willing to date someone that's trans?