@MsThatoM Nah, its falling apart because of leadership from Mseleku & failing to make difficult decisions,
tensions between wives & undermining each other,
unresolved jealousy or hurt,
communication problems,
favouritism,
public pressure
and the strain of living everything publicly on TV
@PatootieCutie_F I think you guys sometimes romanticise the other wives as being โgood to herโ while overlooking moments where subtle digs, exclusion, or alliances happened. Group dynamics in that family are never fully innocent on any side. They don't even like each other as istimela
The pressure becomes unfair when people act like she alone must carry the moral responsibility of the whole household. This is an unrealistic expectation. MaKhumalo was present, she is an adult, she also has a voice and influence
@TeighMo@Lesedi__Larona If she had quietly taken charge of the hospital situation alone, you people mightโve accused her of acting like the only legitimate wife or sidelining the others. By involving everyone, she may have been trying to avoid exactly that accusation
You previously saved their number (even briefly) and they still have your number saved. So their Status privacy is set to โMy contactsโ. I hope that makes sense
@ClaudeLeRoux103@MightiJamie@Bluttoboy Absolutely, she confirmed it on her Facebook account, even going as far as to defend him. At one point, she stated that Mkhwananzi isn't clean either.