• New decision - 1 day
• New habit - 21 days
• New skills - 90 days
• New body - 180 days
• New life - 365 days
• New you - 1,095 days
Change happens fast- if you're ready to reprogram your brain.
Powerful Words By Rosslyn Ene Naingode
Dear men,
Please read.
Men are suffering let the truth be told.
Many can't comprehend this truth.they will fight it and call me names. But aman has become a sacrificial lamb in society.
When pharoah wanted to reduce the Israelites he told the midwives to kill all the boy children but spare the girls.Exodus 15:1-22. Killing the seed (male )and spare the woman.
This continues to date. Men die like dogs the burden on their shoulders is very heavy. Nobody cares about them.criticisms left right.
The environment isn't conducive for the boy child
Men must be considered this time.
The girl child has been empowered so much to the extent of bragging about it. she speaks proudly " what a man can do a woman can do better "
Men are told to be strong and not to cry when they go through painful experiences, causing them to fall into depression,because they must hide their pain while the girl child is allowed to express hers 😢
Today if aman is jobless he can't have family. Our young men fear marriage like a plaque.
The untold stories of men being mistreated in homes must still be hidden underneath why?
Immediately a man loses his job the wife will be taken away by her people.
Some girls will be supported by their brothers but warned not to welcome her desperate husband.
Men buy love to survive.....a man without money should count himself unloved and unvalued.
She will run away and term him as a Deadbeat dad. later If God remembers that man she will be acting like a monitoring spirit.all over the social media calling him names .
If a man is financially handicapped he is denied to see his own children imagine.
If both man and women are working all the bills belong to the man but the woman's money belongs to her.
I must say the world is very cruel to the boy child
Look at the men when they retire,unless he invested heavily....bure the same children he suffered to educate will be buying luxurious things for their mother while the man looks like a beggar. If he is privileged enough he will be given two hundred shillings for airtime.
Most of the phone calls and mpesa messages belong to their mama.
The old man will only benefit when he dies and the burial ceremony looks colourful with an expensive suit and coffin.
Let's turn around the table and start supporting the boy child.
The suffering is becoming unbearable 💔. Some opt to die miserable by hanging, drugging themselves. Alcohol has become the order of the day.they hid under the mask just to fit in.
Men are losing it. they are becoming useless everyday because society expects a lot from them, but it neglects to empower them.
I did not ask for God for money.
I asked Him for:
1. Vision
2. Strategy
3. The right people
4. Courage
5. Wisdom
6. The right environment
7. Favor
As a result of these things money came. I dare you to ask Him!
The world is not FAIR.
The fairness trap is a mental prison created by the weak to shackle the strong.
The world is not fair.
It works on the laws of PHYSICS and BIOLOGY.
The lion doesn't care about the life of a gazelle; it just eats the gazelle.
So, is the world fair?
No. It is not.
You are waiting for a referee to step into the game and award you a penalty.
He doesn't exist in this game called life.
There is no referee, there is only VALUE.
If you don't create VALUE, you deserve nothing, and nobody will save you.
If you solve a big problem in a few minutes and get paid big, don't sabotage yourself by judging yourself for earning big in a few minutes. You have solved a big problem in 5 minutes, and therefore, you are being paid for spending 5 years learning how to solve it in 5 minutes.
Kill the judge in your head.
Don't judge yourself.
Be shameless in the execution of your skills.
Is the world fair?
No. It is cold and indifferent. It doesn't care.
Is the hiring process fair?
No. Therefore, bypass the hiring process by networking and marketing your value.
Is the game rigged?
Yes.
So, why play the game of losers?
Men don't play by the rules. They trade their money for assets.
Are politicians fair?
No.
They will never be fair.
Therefore, exploit the loopholes they created for themselves and build your leverage alongside them.
You can choose to complain, or you can choose to step into the ring and become a man of value.
You can continue complaining about fairness or go coldly and shamelessly for the crown lying at the edge of the abyss.
You can continue feeling and prioritizing your fragile emotions or you can start engaging your logic and think.
As others whine, you build tools to leverage your value.
You are either the Prince or the Peasant.
The enemy is not poverty,
The enemy is the void in your head that you have refused to conquer.
Your enemy is the battlefield sitting between your ears.
The choice is yours.
#BetterTogether
There's an old idea that says a man is tested three times before he earns anything worth having. The first test takes what he loves. The second test takes his confidence. The third test makes him wait with no proof that it's coming. Most men fail the third one. Not because they're weak. Because patience with no guarantee is the hardest thing a human being can do. If you're in the waiting room right now, don't move. Don't panic. Just hold.
"It doesn't matter how many years you lost....Save the rest of your life."
No regrets about the past.
Face Forward.
Make the rest of your life what you want.
Just solve problems. Your problems first. Then others' problems. That's how you learn, become valuable, become high-agency, earn an income, practice creativity, and improve the quality of your mind, body, spirit, finances, relationships. Get distracted and life starts to crumble.
Success isn’t built on motivation. It’s built on identity. When you see yourself as the type of person who trains daily, writes daily, works deeply, action follows automatically. Change who you are in your head, and your habits will follow without force.
Average attracts average. You want exceptional? Be freaking exceptional. Be wildly delightful. Be incredibly optimistic. Ruin them with your enthusiasm. Make them wonder. What makes you so different? Bang down every door until there are no doors left. Build your own door. Run through it. Don’t worry about making the “right” decision. Make the decision right. You’ve only got so much time left here. It is fleeting and going faster than you realize. Every single day matters. It matters. You matter. So make the absolute most of it. You’ve got nothing to lose except yourself. I hope you do. Lose yourself. Find yourself again. Don’t look back.
It doesn’t make sense to continue wanting something if you’re not willing to do what it takes to get it.
If you don’t want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process, is to guarantee disappointment.