The hill I will live on: After each work meeting everyone should vote on the usefulness of it. In a month, if a colleague has scheduled more than 5 meetings with a usefulness score of 5/10 or below, they lose 10% of their salary that month.
This money will then be distributed among all the innocent souls who lost part of their life time because Oga had a random itch to just gather people and preside over them.
Put the eggs in the freezer for about 10 minutes. Boil some water in that time. Gently put the eggs in the boiling water and leave in for about 10 minutes. Done.
Because you’d have already had practice at being seen honestly. And dealing with seeing other people clearly, faults, trauma and all. And speaking about it with them.
You would not have such big fears about entering an authentic relationship or a marriage if you were more straightforward, truth speaking and willing to have hard conversations with the closest people you already currently relate with: friends and family.