“we need a lot of love to walk through this life.”
surround yourself with people who don’t hesitate to speak love and protection over you. people who root for you when you share your goals with them. keep shifting up and out of lukewarm spaces. go where your presence is valued.
People assume your gentleness must have come from an easy life. They don't know you walked through the darkness alone and transformed your pain into power, your wounds into wisdom, the mistreatment of others into boundaries, and your generational curses into blessings.
it’s so important for me to date someone who understands my family & house situation, my background, my hectic schedule. relationship should be at least makes you feel at ease and not uneasy. it’s essential for me that i am assured that no matter who am i, no matter how messy ---
he was nice but i deserve someone who’s crazy about me. there’s a lot of “love out loud” that i missed out on as a child. i would love for my future life partner to give me that. love me out loud. speak of me with pride. best believe, i’ll be doing that for you too.
never regret the love you have shown people. if you showed up in someone’s life with nothing but gentleness, kindness and compassion - it’s not on you if they couldnt return it. the fact you’re abundant enough to express love loudly and unapologetically is beautiful. don’t change
your partner coming to you about something you’re doing wrong isn’t a personal attack. it’s communication. it’s a heads up. listen, fix it and do better.
NEVER get mad at your partner for expressing what upsets them... Even if it isn’t deep to you, it may be a serious matter to them. Genuine consideration is key.
I LOVE someone who isn't afraid to be vulnerable with me. Someone who proudly pours out their heart and feelings for me without shame or fear. Someone who tells me how they feel and also shows me how they feel. I Love someone who isn't afraid to Love me out loud, including to me.
a lot of people struggle to let go of friends they’ve clearly outgrown and we should talk about it. a lot of us feel this undying loyalty towards them because we remember when they were there for us at our lowest once upon a time. that’s cute & everything but…
“they won’t talk to me but they keep watching my story” have you considered that they are a fan & that is the role they are meant to play in your life. a fan. they’re real comfortable watching from the crowd bc they’re incapable of meeting you where you are at, energetically.
nobody really talks about how hard it is to navigate relationships when you’ve never been loved properly. the way you can either cling to someone no matter how unhealthy they are for you or, in my case, the way you’ll push them away because you’re terrified of the idea of someone