Mental illness is a different monster. One that steals the person you love and replaces them with someone you don't know.
It's difficult to love someone you don't know.
And it's hard for the people who's battling with the monster when they lose themselves.
i hope today is everything you need it to be. i hope you feel supported. i hope you feel loved. i hope you laugh. i hope you smile. i hope you feel valued. i hope you feel heard.
sometimes a healthy relationship requires the people in it to teach the other how to love them properly. we all come from such different upbringings that what we may deem a sufficient love expression may not be that for the person receiving it from us.
Consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make u feel. Pays attention to detail. Thinks of u when making decisions that could affect you.
hey you.
yes, you.
this week is yours for the taking. remain present. let go of any guilt you might be feeling about mistakes that you’ve already made. stop worrying about future events that might not even happen. focus on what’s in front of you. ok? ok.
A strong connection with someone is what begins a love story, but you cannot build a healthy relationship with them until you know and respect their character.
you’re a multidimensional being, your healing will come with many layers. give yourself the time and patience to unfold delicately as you peel back parts of your essence.
please date people that are patient with you, that are kind to you and gentle with you on your good and bad days, that uplift you and make you feel seen and heard
Heal so you can love, feel, and connect more deeply. Heal so you can speak your mind without fear of being judged, ridiculed, or invalidated. Heal so you can manifest healthy relationships with no trauma attached to them. Heal so you can remember who you are and what you deserve.
i truly appreciate kindness. i appreciate people checking up on me. i appreciate a quick message, i appreciate those who ask if im okay, i appreciate every single person in my life who has tried to brighten my days. it’s the little things that matter the most
it's nice to have someone who's aware of your sensitivity and learns to handle your feelings gently, with patience and care. that's something i crave, especially in this world that so often ignores the complexity of emotions.
when i say “i love you more” i don’t mean i love you more than you love me, i mean i love you more than the bad days ahead of us. i love you more than any fight we’ll ever have. i love you more than any obstacle that will try and come between us. i love you with all my heart.