@Mo0ncatmiso@piedjiminn Bingo. They all benefit from pretty privilege they wouldn’t have even made it to Dream Academy if they weren’t conventionally attractive. And you’re right, focusing on pretty privilege when most of them benefitting from financial privilege was just as much of a factor is a choice
@TJ_Yuuta@suffering962@fauxfilosopher@nfrndlyblkhttie Was never here to argue any of that I just didn’t like his disingenuous reply and wanted to explain what the original replier meant. It was a crazy leap to make just because someone pointed out that she would’ve been upset either way
@TJ_Yuuta@suffering962@fauxfilosopher@nfrndlyblkhttie I never argued that he didn’t have his own justification. Only the notion that there was “no other option”. He admits he should’ve left earlier in some comments but in others he’s acting like we’re dumb for pointing out the road he was too scared to take
@TJ_Yuuta@suffering962@fauxfilosopher@nfrndlyblkhttie He should’ve broken up with her around the time he had that thought instead of waiting that long . Didn’t have to be that moment but OP said he waited months. There’s no “good guy” scenario, sometimes you have to do hard things
@TJ_Yuuta@suffering962@fauxfilosopher@nfrndlyblkhttie We can ponder hypotheticals about what might’ve happened with her but all we know is what he did do, which is lie to her for months and breakup with her anyway. It may be justified to him but it doesn’t erase the reality, and the root of it regardless is cowardice.
@TJ_Yuuta@suffering962@fauxfilosopher@nfrndlyblkhttie My initial response stemmed from irritation towards his reply that implied there were no other choices and his theatrics insinuating that we genuinely thought he should’ve stayed with her 4ever. Also feels a bit like he’s feigning nobility for staying with her which I find lame
@TJ_Yuuta@fauxfilosopher@suffering962@nfrndlyblkhttie I’m not arguing whether he did the right thing or not (he didn’t imo) I only replied to the theatrics of his disingenuous reply acting like there was no other option. “So you’re saying I should’ve stayed with her forever since she’d be upset regardless” no one said that…
@fauxfilosopher@suffering962@nfrndlyblkhttie How is this what you took from that lmaoooo. The point is she’s gonna be upset either way so the sooner you put her out of the misery of being with someone who’s not all in, the better
@hauntedhotmess Sometimes I have nocturnal orgasms and I was curious and looked it up and research said it was possibly anxiety-related. So do with that info what you will
@spacemandamon@keepitchrissy@thiqebottom Ahh okay so your “curiosity” was facetious. You’re just a ragebaiter. Carry on. I hope you heal from whatever alcoholic guardian beat you as a child or whatever partying ass ex you had that gave you this unjustified anger towards any adult that dares to enjoy a night out xx
@spacemandamon@keepitchrissy@thiqebottom I’m not missing any point you’re just not very good at reading and interpreting. I said there are many paths to fun and going out on Halloweekend as an adult doesn’t negate a well rounded/balanced life where there are hobbies and travel. You’re the only one talking in extremes
@spacemandamon@keepitchrissy@thiqebottom You can do all of these things and still go out on a holiday weekend lmao it’s not one or the other there’s many ways to fun. Also ew? Way to project. It’s fun to lower inhibitions with friends, dance, dress up, and meet new people not whatever the hell you’re talking ab
@spacemandamon@keepitchrissy@thiqebottom Well should the children be doing it? Why do some of you act like fun shuts down after like 25? Adulthood is the perfect time to go out, club, drink, go to parties and raves and things? You’re smart enough to keep yourself safe and you have real money