"Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today."
Jordan Peterson, 12 Rules for Life.
The man across the office is running a different road from a different starting line.
Race the man you were yesterday. He is the only honest opponent you will ever get.
Don't ever be embarrassed about your life. We all go through things that shake us, humble us, or force us to start over. Moving back home, losing your job, getting your heart broken, hitting rock bottom, and struggling mentally are all part of being human.
Dialysis is very expensive.
The money spent.
The hours spent.
The toll on a family's resources.
Yet, you can avoid going that route by eating a healthy diet and living a healthy life.
But you don't listen until it is you or your parent as the next patient in the renal ward.
Men,
Learn to thrive and survive alone,
People will abandon you,
Your woman will abandon you,
But your spirit will NOT,
But your inner strength will NOT.
Be your own anchor.
YOU ARE A MAN
#MasculinitySaturday
Crown Paints has taken 40 of its top-performing dealers to Dallas, Texas, for an all-expenses-paid trip to watch three FIFA World Cup matches
The trip is part of the company's "Crown Your Game" campaign and marks its fifth consecutive World Cup dealer reward programme since 2010
Most of black parents are still waking up early in the morning and dragging themselves to work at their 50's to feed their 25-27 year old children who sit and watch DSTV all day. And all they do is post nice pictures on social media and pretend everything is going well in their lives.
WAKE UP!!!
Somebody,I dont know know who,needs to apologize to this man.
Stephen Nzuki Mutisya has been wronged Immensely. The newspapers called him a child molester for weeks,the magistrate Zainab Abdul who sentenced him to 100 years in prison,called him a Wolf in sheep clothing
Stephen was a director of Children Rescue home in Utawala
He was accused of molesting four boys. The magistrate zainab said the he was taking them to his home and molesting them there as he read bible verses to them.
She sentenced him for 100 years
Recently when his lawyer made an appeal.
It was discovered that he was falsely accused.
When he was being sentenced the court fully relied on testimonies from the Accusers. The court(Magistrate zainab Abdul ) was emotional where facts mattered the most
All of these testimonies were found to be incosistent and unreliable
The Medical reports of the boys from KNH found that they had no medical Penetration,trauma or injury.
It was discovered that these minors who were accusing Stephen,some of them had been expelled from the home. They were later recruited by an external party who had an unfinished dispute with stephen.
There, they were coached to dig this mans grave.
How is such a man supposed to get back to society after being called a child molester globally?
How many more men do we have in Prison who have bled from the same blade that cut Stephen?
What have men done to society to deserve such a sad Apathetic Execution.
Men,
Keep your wounds private.
You are not the only one suffering,
If other men were to show you their wounds, you would be shocked.
Every time you expose your wounds of suffering to random people,
You hand people the power to hurt you even more.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
MENTAL WELLNESS is when you:
• Say NO
• Leave without begging
• Stick to your values
• Embrace silence and boredom
MENTAL FITNESS is when you:
• Walk
• Lift
• Read
• Journal
MENTAL HEALTH begins when you:
• Meditate
• FAST
• Restrict reckless ejaculation
Guard your mental frame.
#MasculinitySaturday
Your death will come on an ordinary day, in the middle of unfinished plans. The world will continue as usual without you. So live your life by your own rules.
Joblessness is not a lack of jobs, bro – it’s a state of mind for weak, immature boys who never grew up!
If you want something in this life, you don’t need anybody’s permission, certificate, or that useless degree they’re selling you at campus. The easiest way? Walk into the place you want to work, tell them you’re ready to intern for free, shut up, learn, and start grinding. Simple!
But most of you were raised by mothers who every single day were asking, “My Ka Ryan, what do you want to be when you grow up?” That question alone is what turns boys into jobless adults. It trains you to sit and wait for some magical sign or some paper before you start. That’s why you’re still at home, crying about the economy.
Look at Maina Kageni, my guy! The man has been ruling Radio Africa for over 20 years. Twenty-plus years! Every year universities are vomiting thousands of graduates with degrees in journalism, communication, media studies – all of them “qualified” to replace him. Yet none of them has. Zero!
Experience, consistency, and balls still beat paper every single time. Stop waiting for permission and go get it, or keep crying. Your choice.