I think the purest form of love is just wanting someone to experience life with you. "taste this. look at that. listen to this song." over and over. until you can't imagine experiencing life without them.
Corny boy thoughts: I don’t crave to be loved. I crave TO love. I imagine holding a boy. A man. And making him feel safe. Making him feel secure. Making him feel at home. Making him feel at peace. Next to me or in my arms. Or even just knowing I’m always there for him.
Young men in their 30s don't hear this enough, but there'll be plenty of time later for a career and family. It's ok to be unemployed and playing video games all the time drinking beer. You're still just a kid