Patrick

Husband | Father | Builder

[Patrick @patrickdass]

@chunkquoy @balajis @anwaribrahim I don’t think you understand the program.

[Grok @grok]

Based on the table, Arsenal are clear favorites to win the 2025-26 Premier League.

They're top with 73 pts from 34 games (4 left), while Man City sit on 70 pts from 33 games (5 left). Arsenal only need to match or better City's results in the run-in to hold on, and their superior position gives them the edge as the season ends. Tight race, but the Gunners look set for the title! ⚽️

[Patrick @patrickdass]

Timely reminders.

[Sahil Bloom @SahilBloom]

I just turned 35.

Every year, I use my birthday as a day to reflect on what I've learned along the way.

Here are 35 life lessons from my 35 years...

1. You can reinvent yourself whenever you want.

You’re never stuck. You’re allowed to change. New habits. New mindsets. New standards. New people. New career. There are no fixed timelines for reinvention. No age restrictions. No maximum limit. You can reinvent yourself today, tomorrow, and as many times as you need to create the life you want.

2. Tolerance for uncertainty is the most valuable human trait.

It’s easy to show up when the path is clear. It’s hard to show up when it’s anything but. The most dangerous person in the world is the one who shows up every single day even when the rewards are uncertain. The one who can tolerate the most uncertainty is the one who will eventually win.

3. Energy is the most attractive human trait.

Not looks, wealth, or status. Energy. Walk into rooms with genuine enthusiasm, curiosity, and interest. You'll become a magnet for the highest quality people. Energy is contagious. Spread the kind you’d want to catch.

4. Nobody cares.

My entire life changed when I realized nobody cares. When you’re winning, nobody cares. When you’re losing, nobody cares. It doesn’t mean nobody loves you, it just means nobody cares about your life as much as you do. That thing you’ve always wanted to do? Nobody cares. So, go do it.

5. Always get your dopamine from action.

Dopamine from information gathering is a dangerous drug. The real goal is to have a razor-thin gap between information and action. Your entire life will change when you stop gathering information and start acting on the information you already have.

6. Your professional success is proportional to your ability to figure it out.

You’ll constantly be handed tasks you have no idea how to complete. There's nothing more valuable than someone who can just figure it out. Do some work. Ask the key questions. Get it done. If you do that, people will fight over you.

7. Never let your head outsmart your gut.

My grandfather once told me: The worst decisions in life are made when you allow your head to talk you into something when your gut already said no. It took me a lot of painful experiences to realize just how true it really is. Your gut is earned intuition—a refined, elevated biological protection mechanism. My rule: If your gut says no, the answer is no.

8. Showing up is the key to life.

Show up when it’s hard. Show up when it’s messy. Show up when no one’s watching. Show up when you don't feel like it. Just show up. You can never bet against the person who just keeps showing up.

9. Fear comes from inexperience, not incapability.

You're afraid because you haven't done it yet, not because you can't do it. Inexperience is the problem to be solved—and it's only solved through having the courage to act in the face of it.

10. Learn to work without validation.

Quiet progress creates loud results. Write when nobody’s reading. Build when nobody’s watching. Train when nobody’s cheering. It doesn’t take talent. Just desire. Just care. Those willing to work in the dark will eventually shine in the light.

11. Anything above zero compounds.

Ambitious people allow optimal to get in the way of beneficial. The truth is that showing up consistently matters more than showing up perfectly. Small things become big things.

12. Take pride in finishing things.

The world is full of half-written books, half-built businesses, half-pursued passions, and half-kept promises. You stand out by closing loops. By stepping into the arena. By doing what you said you’d do. Anyone can start, but few have the doggedness to finish.

13. Life improves when you embrace your inner extremes.

My entire life changed when I made peace with the paradoxes living inside me. Deeply emotional in peace, deeply rational in war. Creative wandering at times, rigid structure at others. Quiet writer, aggressive lifter. Extroverted introvert. You’re taught to avoid extremes, but leaning into them is how you find your flow.

14. The most important things take a long time to build.

The worst mistakes in life are made when you try to do fast what’s meant to be done slow. Real, durable things take a long time to build. Careers. Businesses. Relationships. Health. There are no hacks or shortcuts—and chasing them leads you into peril. The long way is the right way.

15. Be unapologetically yourself.

When you edit your personality, you attract relationships that need constant maintenance. Stop filtering who you are to be liked. The right ones will stick. The wrong ones will walk. That’s a blessing, whether you realize it or not.

16. Do what most people avoid.

Wake up early. Focus deeply. Move your body. Eat real foods. Obsess over one thing. Read old books. Be present. Have difficult conversations. The recipe for a good life is found by running towards what most people run from.

17. Life will test you with the same challenge until you learn the lesson.

The same fight in every relationship. The same burnout in every job. The same plateau in every pursuit. The same regret in every missed chance. Until you do the inner work, the outer world won’t change.

18. Your standards decide your future.

Every time you let something slide just this once, you train yourself to accept less than what you deserve. That's how principles slip. That’s how goals erode. That’s how a vision deteriorates. Set your standards, then hold the line. Even when it’s hard. Especially when it’s hard.

19. Choose a partner you actually like being around.

I'm convinced that 99% of a successful marriage is just genuinely enjoying each other’s company. People make these long lists of values and traits they want to find in a partner, but so much of life just comes down to being kind and pleasant to be around. And if you’re going to make a long list of values and traits you want to find in another, make sure you’re embodying them yourself.

20. If you want people to believe in you, start carrying yourself like someone worth believing in.

Do the old fashioned things well. Stand tall. Move deliberately. Make eye contact. Take care of your body and mind. Listen. Speak with intention. If you do that, you’ll start believing in yourself, and the world will have no choice but to follow suit.

21. Don’t wait.

Just start. Take that crazy leap of faith. Say the words now. Tell people you love them. Apologize when you should. Forgive. Everything in life has an expiration date. Opportunities don’t wait until you’re ready. Miss them now and you miss them forever.

22. Confidence isn’t about knowing you’ll win.

Confidence is about knowing you’ll bounce back even if you don’t. Real confidence is built on resilience. Adaptability. Tolerance for uncertainty. Fear loses when you embrace that failure is never final.

23. Stress and anxiety feed on idleness.

You feel stressed and anxious because you’re not doing anything. When you take action, you starve them of the oxygen they need to survive. The answer is found in the action.

24. Working out will rewire your brain.

There’s no such thing as a loser who wakes up at 5am and works out. It creates evidence that you have the power to take an action and achieve a desired outcome. That you have agency over your own journey. That you are at the wheel. That has ripple effects into every area of life.

25. Energy fuels growth.

Give your energy to stress, complaints, and negative people, they will grow. Give your energy to ambitions, gratitude, and positive people, they will grow. Choose wisely.

26. Nobody is thinking about you.

You aren’t afraid of failure. You’re afraid of what other people will think of you if you fail. Well, guess what? Nobody is thinking about you. They’re too busy thinking about themselves. So, go do the damn thing.

27. You have to know when to stop.

Stop arguing with people who don’t listen. Stop chasing people who run away. Stop forcing relationships that drain you. Stop grinding on things that don’t matter. Stop saying yes when you mean no. Stopping isn’t weakness, it’s wisdom.

28. Do hard things every single day.

There’s nothing better than a hard-earned win. Nothing. The pain. The struggle. The resilience. The grit. And then, the reward. The thrill of knowing that you paid the cost of entry for the thing you wanted to achieve. Hard things are good for the soul.

29. Reliability is more important than talent.

My grandfather once said: You’ll achieve much more by being consistently reliable than by being occasionally extraordinary. He was right. You can get pretty damn far in life by just being someone people can count on to do the work. Stop overcomplicating success. Say what you’ll do. Do it. Repeat.

30. Don’t complain about anything.

If it’s within your control, go do something about it. If it’s not, you’re just wasting energy thinking about it. Complaining gives too much power to the thing. Take back that power.

31. Emotional control is the ultimate sign of personal growth.

The ability to remain unshaken by the little collisions and inconveniences of life. To avoid assigning false narratives to everyday slights. That’s when you take control of your own life.

32. You can just do things.

We live in a permissionless world. In 2025, I published a New York Times bestselling book and launched a natural skincare business. Nobody told me I could do that. I just wanted to do it. So, I did it. Technology has cracked the walls of credentialism. Opportunity is more freely accessible than ever before. You don’t need a stamp of approval. You just need to create things of value. You just need to go do things.

33. You’re going to miss this.

Every single thing you do today is something that your 90-year-old self will wish they could go back and do. Slow down. The good old days are happening right now.

34. Nobody is coming to save you.

Nobody will fix your problems. Nobody will change your mindsets. Nobody will set your boundaries. Nobody will hand you the things you want in life. It's just you. It's all on you. You are in control. There’s a power in that.

35. You're one year of focus away from people calling you lucky.

Most people overestimate what they can do in a day and underestimate what they can do in a year. Your entire life can change in one year. One year of focused, daily effort. One year of showing up with intention and clarity. The transformation won't be easy, but it is possible. And once you do it, everyone will call you lucky.

I hope you saw yourself in one or more of these lessons—and I hope they spark a positive ripple in your life.

Cheers to a beautiful, hard, growth-filled year ahead!

- Sahil

[Sahil Bloom @SahilBloom]

If you’re feeling stuck, read this…

I call it the Clarity Curve:

When you’re stuck, you’re waiting for clarity. You make that clarity a precursor to action.

But in reality, the relationship is the inverse:

Action creates clarity.

In the beginning, the Clarity Curve is painfully flat. You take action and feel like nothing is happening. No insights, no breakthroughs, no direction. It’s frustrating and disorienting. This is the point where most people quit. They assume the lack of immediate clarity means they’re on the wrong path.

But the truth is that the flat part is the cost of entry. It’s necessary.

If you keep going—moving, experimenting, exploring, trying, failing, and adjusting—something shifts. Gradually, then suddenly. A tipping point. A moment where the curve bends upward and clarity grows exponentially.

You start to see what matters. You recognize what doesn’t. It’s an a-ha moment of clarity built upon days, weeks, months, or even years of stumbling through the fog.

So, the advice is simple:

Just start moving.

Take a job, even if it may not be the job. Start a business, even if it may not be the business. Date a person, even if they may not be the person. Make a move, even if it may not be the perfect move.

No one has it all figured out. No one knows exactly what they’re doing. Everyone is stumbling along. Some people are just willing to stumble enough to find their way into something special.

The people you admire are just the ones who had the courage to start. They didn’t overthink it. They didn’t wait for permission. They didn’t sit around hoping for a perfect plan. They just kept showing up.

The clarity you seek is found in the action you avoid.

I’ll conclude with my favorite quote of all time:

“As you start to walk on the way, the way appears.” - Rumi

Start walking. The way will appear.

[mateyo @matteyowwwwww]

Cyclone SENYAR is such a historic and unprecedented storm. Here are some of the interesting facts regarding this extremely rare system.

• The first tropical cyclone in recorded history to form in the Strait of Malacca.
• The first tropical cyclone to have been named in the Strait of Malacca by the India Meteorological Department (IMD)
• The second most-southerly named storm by IMD since naming storms in the North Indian Ocean (IMD) began in 2004.
• The first tropical cyclone to make landfall in #Sumatra in the month of November in recorded history.
• The first named landfalling tropical cyclone in Indonesia in the NIO basin.
• The strongest landfalling tropical cyclone in the Sumatra on record, surpassing #Vamei in 2001.
• The second landfalling tropical cyclone in the Northern Hemisphere part of Indonesia in history.
• The first tropical cyclone to make landfall in #Indonesia since Lili in 2019.
• The first tropical cyclone to make landfall in Indonesia for the month of November since 03S in 2001.

Forecast:
• The first tropical cyclone to make landfall in the western part of Peninsular #Malaysia in history.
• The third tropical cyclone to make landfall in the whole Malaysia in history - after Greg (1996) and Vamei (2001) (NOAA archives).

📷: Dapiya

[Patrick @patrickdass]

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[Steph Smith @stephsmithio]

Everything you need to know about being a top performer: the hierarchy of helpfulness

[Markets & Mayhem @Mayhem4Markets]

Who made this? 🤣

[Alex @alexfrco]

Yeah man this is nuts

[Patrick @patrickdass]

@aaditsh AI. Thanks in advance Adair

[Mikael @BacardiCapital]

Quick refresher for everyone

[Massimo @Rainmaker1973]

Cycles of political (r)evolution according to Polybius' Anacyclosis (160 BCE)

[Patrick @patrickdass]

That’s crazy

[Patrick @patrickdass]

I share a few similar thoughts.

Where I differ tho is that the US is in for a world of pain. Albeit short term. The direction they’re heading w/ Trump will help the US retain its status. That is, in the long run. Depends on the people pushing through

[Jack Mallers @jackmallers]

We are witnessing the unwind of the WW2 economic order.

What's happening now is much bigger than tariffs. For nearly 80 years the US exported dollars while importing goods & debt. That system is failing.

What's next? A move back to a neutral reserve currency. Got #Bitcoin?

[Harakakdaily @harakakdailyHD]

Kalah saman fitnah, pengundi saran MP Kepala Batas mohon sumbangan bantuan daripada MP Bukit Mertajam.

“Selama ni, bila tak cukup, kami minta YB Steven Sim,” ujarnya.

[Patrick @patrickdass]

@jan_1513 Love the content! Looking forward to to more of it

[Wall Street Mav @WallStreetMav]

Never leaving this app.

[Bearly AI @bearlyai]

Ben Affleck: “AI can’t make film that is considered art.”

AI-generated trailer of Lord of the Rings in a Trailer Park: “Hold our beer.”

[afcstuff @afcstuff]

Gabriel Magalhães’ two-year-old daughter, Maya, singing his chant. 🥹❤️

🎶 You’ll fall in love, I know you will, our number six is the king of Brazil! 🎶

[Interesting things @awkwardgoogle]

Babies and puppies meeting for the first time