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New essay in @the_rumpus. "Awkward Intimacy" is about what psychiatry doesn't treat: the loneliness that makes us sicker. Dogs, Grindr, a father with Parkinson's, fourteen months in jail and a state hospital—and the two people inside the institution who understood that connection is the mechanism.
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If you listen closely when Clancy speaks of the dreams he has when his children return to him, you can hear a soft off-camera sob by @douthat60. There was no journalist better prepared, spiritually and morally, to do this interview. He's going to quickly become a treasure at "60"
Harvard kids singing Radiohead’s “Creep.”
This could have gone very wrong.
Then the lead singer opens his mouth.
The Harvard Veritones have won at the International Championship of Collegiate A Cappella — the real-world competition that inspired Pitch Perfect.
Turn the sound on for this one.
“Recovery, at its deepest, is the work of becoming known again by someone patient enough to look past what the illness did and remember who you were before it spoke in your voice,” writes @patrickwkelly
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AI therapy will never misunderstand you, get impatient, or ask anything of you in return. That frictionlessness may feel good but ultimately prevent you from healing. From @patrickwkelly https://t.co/uFgBRVVfH0
Enjoying the @andyroddick commentary on ESPN so far but then that's no surprise. One of the most insightful and quick-witted players I have covered in nearly 40 years of doing this. He also -- dare we dream -- seems to understand the power of silence in his work with @cbfowler #Tennis commentary needs a revival of less-is-more
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Do you ever think about how a reality TV show 25 years ago set out to find the best pop singer in America and actually found the best singer in America?
The most honest thing a friend ever told me was that he finds life more enjoyable high. The least honest thing was the shrug that came after, like that sentence didn't just describe a crisis.
I had friends who designed their daily schedules around when they get to smoke weed. They also insisted they weren't addicted, yet treated being high as their default mental state and sobriety as an unbearable condition to be escaped from whenever possible.
That sounds... like a pretty hardcore addiction bro.