Was thinking about a post I saw complaining the concept ‘gold star lesbians’ creates an oppressive hierarchy (lesbiarchy?) w a dick touched underclass or w/e - discourse normally outside my lane tbh but - for pride month I wanted to offer this alternative award to those left out
The more autistic traits you have, the more intense your “Intolerance of Uncertainty” becomes. Ambiguity triggers your brain to flip into immediate overdrive. To put that into perspective, when faced with a partner slamming a cabinet door and dropping a cold “I'm fine” during an argument, or a boss sending a vague “Let's chat tomorrow” email with zero context, you immediately begin to pick apart the threat.
Your brain does not try to process the emotion first. Higher autistic traits have a harder baseline reading emotions (the -0.44 link), their absolute hatred of unpredictability (+0.67) forces them to deploy logic.
Once you systematically map out the situation, you then use affect labeling to pin a word to what you are experiencing. This is what finally drops your stress levels and restores total control.
*Data based on a sample of 505 adults (aged 20–39) evaluated across the general population using the 50-item Autism-Spectrum Quotient.
Don Draper drunkenly leaving work at noon and wandering into a Magic the Gathering tourney in a cafe, lighting a cigarette and whispering to some guy in shorts asking what’s happening.
naked brunch today 🥳 last time i posted abt it someone asked what it is then got pissy when i said it's a nude brunch "no what does it entail BEYOND the name?". i think they wanted deets abt it being sexual but we're just nudely drinking mimosas & taking turns drawing each other