There was a time ulikua unaingia hosi daktari anawasha stove achemshe sindano ,unapigwa dawa ilikua inaitwa panadar 2.4 ka matako ,I dnt think we should pay for our sins when we die ,we have paid enough.
Another challenge when it comes to these small girls is that they assume that calling and texting all the time like their jobless peers is a sign of desire. A man can call or text once in a month but still likes you genuinely. Adulting is shafting people and men have missions to accomplish. Make good use of the little time/attention he gives you.
Man to Man:
▪︎ Wake up early whether you like it or not. Sleep is a luxury you earn.
▪︎ Cut porn. It's frying your discipline and making you soft.
▪︎ Lift heavy weights 4 to 6 days a week. Track numbers. If they're not going up, you're lying.
▪︎ Eat boring food. Same meals. Protein first. Pleasure later.
▪︎ Stop explaining yourself. Explanations are for people above you.
▪︎ Learn one high-income skill and go all in. No backup plans. Backups make cowards.
▪︎ Kill useless friendships. If they don't push money, discipline or growth, they're dead weight.
▪︎ Get comfortable being alone. Loneliness is training, not a problem.
▪︎ Read contracts, finance, power, psychology. Fiction won't save you.
▪︎ Build an emergency fund. No one rescues grown men.
▪︎ Stop chasing women. Build a life that attracts them accidentally.
▪︎ Control your temper. Emotional men get manipulated.
▪︎ Dress clean and simple. No logos. No noise. Let silence flex.
▪︎ Learn to say no without guilt.
▪︎ Track your time like money. Wasted hours are stolen years.
▪︎ Fix your posture. Weak body language bleeds into weak decisions.
▪︎ Quit alcohol if you can't control it. If it controls you, it owns you.
▪︎ Learn how to fight or learn how to run fast. Ideally both.
▪︎ Pay your debts aggressively. Owing money kills respect.
▪︎ Keep your mouth shut about plans. Execute first.
▪︎ Accept that no one cares about your struggles. Act accordingly.
▪︎ Build something that pays you while you sleep. If not, you're replaceable.
▪︎ Call your parents. One day you won't be able to.
▪︎ Stop waiting for motivation. Operate on schedule.
▪︎ Become physically dangerous but mentally calm.
▪︎ Respect yourself so hard the world has no choice but to adjust.
That's it. No inspiration. Just work.
@tchaloyi I will hold onto this for the rest of the year...
“If the thing that excites you does not educate you, correct you, or prepare you, it is quietly destroying you.”
Words 💯
Rio Ferdinand won the Premier League multiple times, captained Manchester United to the Champions League victory in 2008, retired from football, became a top pundit on TV, launched successful YouTube channels and podcasts, got awarded an honorary doctorate for his work on inequality and leadership, moved to Dubai for a new chapter with his family, started building his media empire and business ventures, brushes his teeth every single day like a responsible adult… and Arsenal have still not won the UCL.
Men,
A man who calls his kinsmen to a feast does not do so to save them from starving. They all have food in their own homes.
We come together because it is good for kinsmen to do so.
- Chinua Achebe.
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