I’ll tell you this for a fact, a man who stays away from relationship, focusing on his life til he figures it out has more chances of making it out the trenches than one who’s broke and dating. You need yourself more at this point than you need a woman imo. The choice is yours!!!
And in times when it looks like there's no way of escape, may God bring helpers our way.
Helpers like the lawyer that helped them without asking for anything in return, like the priest that helped take care of Williams.
In life, we need such helpers to succeed, we can’t do life alone.
“give yourself a lot of shots to get lucky” is even better advice than it appears on the surface.
luck isn’t an independent variable but increases super-linearly with more surface area—you meet more people, make more connections between new ideas, learn patterns, etc.