@Fred_Blurst@vosnian@yurodivys@bya3k those are all things that can change tho, not saying they certainly did but there can be interpersonal reasons her family was not willing to take her back in
I respect you so much for waking up this conversation. A lot of friendships are hostile and competitive because there is this need for a friend with a little bit more experience to look down and consistently lecture their other friend just for existing and experiencing life in-
when something unlucky happens to your magical-thinking prone friend who is already unkind to themself and youre like fuuuck please don't internalise this
the pigeon doesn’t understand your disdain for it; it coos for you anyway. the tree does not know you own an axe for it; its leaves sway in the sun anyway. the starving cat eats the poison you put out. it doesn’t know how not to trust. the earth forgives you, in spite of yourself
ngl if u have mommy issues and issues making female friends & ur not male centered it's bc u keep choosing friends that have the same abusive qualities as ur mama cuz it's familiar to u 😭😭😭😭😭