Manipulative people will always teach you lessons you’ll remember for years.The growth astonishing,you’ll quickly catch up on years of growth you’ve missed.
Want a better life?
Learn how to:
- self soothe when upset or stressed
- say “no” and without over-explaining
- fully listen without giving advice
- not take rejection personally
- let people face the natural consequences
- dedicate yourself to something even when it’s hard
- do something kind or generous without expecting anything in return
The older I get the more i realise why Yaqub (as) said “i only complain my suffering to Allah.” (12:86). People don't understand your pain, and neither can they comfort you the way Allah (swt) can and does.
What is it called when you know you should be working out but you’re just too tired like how do people do it how.
I’ve no energy after work.
Maybe it’s not in my priority 😔
What is NOT people pleasing: doing something for someone because you want to help and be there.
What IS people pleasing: doing something for someone to avoid feeling guilty, and then ending up feeling used.
I think many confuse being vulnerable with being open. being open means we’re comfortable sharing parts of ourselves we dont mind people knowing, as it gives us control. vulnerability involves others seeing parts of us we have no control over, the parts we fight to remain unseen.