I have some advice for young men newly employed,
When you get employed:
• Be grateful to God, your parents, your mentors and your boss for this opportunity
• Work hard
• Respect your employer
• Adhere to your employer's rules and protocols
• Embrace the mission and vision of the employer
However, if working for your employer becomes unbearable due to other reasons,
• Quit respectfully
• Follow the procedures of quitting as written in your contract or employment letter
• Return your employer's resources in your custody
• Handover politely and thank your employer for giving you an opportunity
• Leave with a clean conscience
Don't be chaotic, abusive and contemptuous on your way out.
Don't think you are smarter than your employer.
The employer you are disrespecting gave you a livelihood when you were seeking a footing and direction.
The employer may not have paid you to your satisfaction, but be polite.
Don't go bad mouthing your employer, speaking nastily, and broadcasting your foul mouth while disclosing what is considered private policies, programs, products or services of your former workplace.
Leave courteously.
This way, you open room for better opportunities, newer networks and better leverage.
Don't be a rude employee. Other employers will fear giving you opportunities in the future because they don't trust you.
Be courteous when you close the door behind you, the universe will be kind to you on your way out.
Men,
A woman who insults you because she can't manipulate you:
"You are an incel,"
"You are a misogynist."
"You are poor,"
"I know men richer than you."
That is a broken, self-entitled woman,
She is an emotional burden.
Dump her immediately.
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Your problem is not a lack of money
Your problem is a lack of self-discipline.
If you can't be disciplined with 1000, you won't have discipline even if given 1 million.
Money and indiscipline are mutually exclusive.
Men,
Nothing can stick on a man who has gone through hell and back.
Nothing can shake a man who has been into the deepest rock bottom and out.
He has met and fought the vilest brimstones.
Be this resilient man! For your woman and children.
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Men,
The rule of thumb is this,
Don't have sexual affairs with colleagues and employees.
This is a slippery road that leads to your destruction and demise.
Don't go that route.
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Men,
After sex, the lady should be the first to go to sleep.
A man is supposed to be the last to sleep and reflect on the kind of job he has done.
Sleep with one eye open.
Rules are rules.
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