Marcus Aurelius was right when he said the crowd will forget you no matter what you do. So the only real question is whether you spent your years chasing their approval or actually living for yourself.
One idea that has revolutionized my thinking is this: you are allowed to not want things.
You can look at everything society tells you that you need to have and just be like, “Nope. I will not be participating.”
@therealdaddymo1@flygodT There is a lot of discipline that is needed to lose 30kg, this takes time. So definitely a lot has changed about him that he doesnt even know or he is failing to realize. Those changes would rub off on his core personality too.
“I outgrew a lot of old friendships. I had survivors guilt and remorse. And I don't feel guilty no more. My success isn't your demise. I try my best to do what I can and to help people when I can. If I can't help you, you got to be able to respect that.”
-A$AP Rocky