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[Gia Macool @GiaMMacool]

Social media convinces women there is something wrong with their husbands and they need to get a divorce.

Don’t believe me?

Take her phone one day and see what the algorithm sends her.

The scroll will be filled with stuff like:

“You’re in a silent divorce if you feel:

• You can’t share your concerns
• Lonely when you’re not alone
• It’s more peaceful away from him
• Date nights feel forced not exciting
• Physical affection is non-existent
• You feel like roommates not friends
• Conversations are about kids & work
• You no longer believe he will change
• You found yourself grieving married
• You feel emotionally exhausted
• You no longer want advice from him
• You are constantly walking on eggshells • You can’t remember good time’s
• You desperately want things to be different

Social media tells you to walk away from responsibilities and commitment

But here’s the truth:
Feelings aren’t facts.

You will feel all of these things
Regardless, if you’re single or married.

It’s a natural reaction to feel alone and overwhelmed when you go through; illness, financial stress, raising children and handling responsibilities that are bigger than yourself.

That’s not your spouses fault.

Your spouse isn’t to be blamed.

When you live in a society of unsustainable lifestyles and endless illusion, it’s always going to feel bad.

How do change this?

Feeling like roommates?
Initiate intimacy.

Can’t talk about concerns?
Encourage and respect your spouse more than you complain.

Lonely while together?
Focus on the good, not on the things you both hate. You’re not twins.

Date nights are forced?
Don’t make date nights a production. Cook a meal at home and be present not on your phone.

No longer believe they can change?
Stop trying to change the person you married.

Deprogramming from social media is the only way to prevent a divorce.

[The married man @marriedmn]

Social media is the biggest enemy of marriages, and it mostly affects women.

She opens instagram she sees a couple going on vacations or a man doing some stuffs with her woman and she starts thinking that the one she has is not the right one.

So she starts to pressure the husband to do things like the ones she saw on instagram and when he doesn't she starts to think he doesn't love her.

I tell you married men out here are going through tough moments, put them in your prayers.

[Sexual Health coach @sxhealth101]

Men, no matter how much you do for a woman, it’s never gonna be enough. She’s never gonna be happy. She’s always gonna find something to complain about, something you could be doing better, something you could be doing differently.

So just either don’t date, or learn to ignore her nagging, because she will find something to complain about. And it’s not even your fault.

You could be the best guy in the world, doing everything for her, providing her with the best life ever, and she’ll still find something to be unhappy about.

If God himself failed to satisfy women who do you think you are?

[Rjbuffalo1 @rjbuffalo1]

@glassj3n From just outside Rochester

[PJ Masculinity @pjalphareacts]

She regrets her divorce because life got tough!

[Longevity Mogul @longevitymogul]

Things a man slowly learn as he grows older:

- No woman loves you for who you are, she only loves for what you can do for her
-Nobody is coming to save you
-Discipline beats motivation
-Money solves many problems
-Silence is better than arguing
- Nobody cares until you are rich or dead.
-Respect is earned, not begged for
- No woman is ever yours
- You can do everything right and still lose.
- Your colleagues are not your friends
- Your father is the only man who wants you to be better than him

[Sexual Health coach @sxhealth101]

No woman is ever yours, whether married or not. Whether you spend two million dollars to change her life and give her the best life, she’s never yours. Whether you sacrifice one of your kidneys for her sake so she will continue to live, she’s still not yours.

Even if you are the kindest, most loving, and amazing man for her, she’s still not yours.

There is nothing you can do to own a woman for yourself. You need to understand this. She’s not yours. It’s just your turn. At any time you can wake up to the reality that the woman you think you own has already left you behind.

Never say to yourself that your woman can never leave you. Men have said that before. Men who are stronger, more handsome, wiser, and richer than you have said that before, and they have learned the hard way.

Don’t be obsessed with a woman. Always be ready. Her loyalty is never to any man but to her feelings. Anything can happen at any time. This is why you get to be prepared and protected.

[ConservativeOkie_Patriot47 @Okie_Patriot46]

I need to make a very PUBLIC announcement on behalf of younger GenXers and older Millennials.

If you see someone in their 40s or 50s who seems a little boring now, I need you to understand something...

We already got it in.

Like...GOT. IT. IN.

We are not sitting home on a Friday night because we never knew how to have fun.
We are sitting home on a Friday night because we have seen enough.

We went to parties in houses that should have been condemned and were almost certainly owned by the local drug dealer.

We saw police lights and RAN and not across a nice, flat field.
INTO THE WOODS.

Do you understand the athleticism required to hurdle uprooted tree roots in platform shoes while simultaneously trying to keep your low-rise jeans from sliding completely off your ass?

And somehow...we never spilled the Zima. We never spilled the Boone’s Farm.

That was TALENT.

We slept on floors in strange houses because the designated driver either never showed up or, in a shocking turn of events, was drunker than everybody else.

There was no Uber, Life360 or Find My Friends.
There was just somebody named Mike saying, “I know a shortcut.”

And we FOLLOWED MIKE.

We closed down bars and then decided the night was still young, so we drove to Atlantic City, where we somehow managed to get drunk, sober up, get drunk again, sober up again and then get drunk a THIRD TIME before breakfast.

And according to our parents? We were at Michelle’s house.

Eating pizza and watching movies.

Michelle’s mother unknowingly covered for approximately 17 people every weekend. If there even was a Michelle.

We drank things called Purple Passion, Mad Dog 20/20 and whatever somebody mixed inside a giant plastic garbage can. Nobody asked what was in it. You grabbed a red Solo cup and trusted the process.

We went to clubs until the lights came on. Do you know the psychological damage of seeing a nightclub with the LIGHTS ON? Nothing good happens after those lights come on.

We danced for four straight hours in shoes that permanently altered the structure of our feet.

We made entire plans without cell phones...no texts, dropped pins or group chats...just an extremely questionable sense of direction.

We rode in cars with 11 people when the vehicle legally seated five. Someone was always sitting on someone. Someone was always in the hatchback.
And there was always one friend yelling, “DUCK!” when we passed a cop.

So yes...now we like being home.
We like sweatpants.
We like cancelling plans.
We like saying, “That sounds fun!” with absolutely no intention of attending.
We like restaurants at 5:30 because we can get a good table.
We like being home by 8:17.

And if someone texts at 9:30 PM and says, “What are you doing?”
Sleeping...we are sleeping.

Because this is not boring my friends...this is retirement.

We already played, partied and danced on the bar.
We already ran from the cops through a wooded area dressed like a Spice Girl.

We have stories that cannot be posted because there are still people with careers, marriages and reputations to protect. And thank GOD there were no camera phones.

So kids, when you look at your Gen X and older Millennial parents sitting peacefully on the couch watching Dateline at 8 PM and think:
“God, you guys are boring.”

Sweetheart...oh sweetheart.
You are looking at retired legends.

Put some respect on our names. We're probably the reason Life360 was invented.

xoxoxo (posted from someone else on FakeBook) 🤣 #genx #oldandtired

[BayoX @realbayoX]

That week I looked at the house we grew up in. Looked at the two-story addition. Looked at my college tuition, paid in full. Looked at Mom, never once worried about a bounced check.

Those nights weren't him choosing absence. They were becoming our whole childhood.

He never missed a payment. Missed every bedtime. Every breakfast. Because the schedule gave him a paycheck. But not a seat at our dinner table.

Overtime isn't just extra hours. It's the years you trade so your kids don't have to. It's a house with your name on the deed and someone else's memories inside it. It's "I love you" clocked in at 10:47 PM.

Dad, if you're reading this somehow: I see it now.

Those shifts weren't for the company. They were for the kids who never had to work one.

[Rick D @RickD_GK]

He is not wrong. There is a definite double standard in this world. ❤️

[The Husky @Mr_Husky1]

Divorce is one of the strangest things human beings go through.

Imagine spending 20+ years with someone. Sharing a bed, a home, a bank account, inside jokes, routines, dreams, and disappointments.

You raise children together. Survive sleepless newborn nights. Navigate miscarriages, illnesses, financial stress, career changes, and family drama. You bury parents and grandparents. Celebrate birthdays, anniversaries, Christmases, and milestones side by side.

You move houses. Build friendships. Take vacations. Make thousands of tiny decisions together that slowly become a life.

That person knows your history, your habits, your fears, and the version of you that existed decades ago.

Then one day, it's over.

No more good morning texts. No more shared plans. No more "we."

The person who was once your closest companion becomes a stranger you're expected to move on from.

It's strange how someone can be woven into nearly every memory of your adult life, and then suddenly exist only as a chapter of it.

Human relationships are far more fragile—and far more remarkable—than most of us realize.

[Rjbuffalo1 @rjbuffalo1]

@Billy_Ch4os @weather_buffalo @ryanhallyall @MaxVelocityWX @Mighty__Muffins @NWSBUFFALO @JimCantore We were right next to you when that happened. It took out so many trees in the park.

[Rjbuffalo1 @rjbuffalo1]

@Bentleybones1 @MsRoseCavalier Adorable. I just walked in on my boys sleeping

[Voice of Sobriety @voiceofsobriety]

One of the hardest parts of sobriety:

Accepting that life might not work out how you want.

You might fail.

You might lose money.

Someone might leave.

The plan might not work.

Sobriety is learning to face reality without running from
it.

[Reads with Ravi @readswithravi]

I’m in love with this sentence:

“Every pattern in your life repeats until you learn the lesson. The moment you choose differently, the loop ends and growth begins.”

[Voice of Sobriety @voiceofsobriety]

Alcoholism can ruin your reputation long after you quit.

You disappear for a few hours?
They think you're drinking.

You don't answer?
They worry you've relapsed.

You're tired?
They look at you differently.

Meanwhile, you're sober.

Working.

Trying.

Rebuilding.

Rebuilding trust takes much longer.

You created that reputation.

Part of recovery is earning a new one.