The older I get, the more I realize that anxiety comes from trying to live in two places at once. Replaying yesterday. Rehearsing tomorrow. All while trying to live right now. It's exhausting. Come back to the present. Handle the two feet right in front of you. You don't need to fix your whole life today. You need to take the next right step. Then another. That's the recipe.
People are so enamored with your existence that they abandon their ENTIRE lives trying to sabotage you. They’ve given up their time, energy, resources, ruined their own reputations and relationships to try to stop you from living your life. They don’t want you to move on and start a new life but they don’t realize trying to sabotage you is doing nothing but making them lose EVERYTHING. Their health (mentally and physically, their finances , their public image is all ruined bc EVERYBODY sees how malicious, obsessed and devious these people have always been.
Life is simple, first you figure out where you want to live, who you want to be with, what you want to do; then you figure out how to clear the short-term goals that will lead to the long-term vision; and finally, you figure out how to stop making excuses and just pay the price.
TOXIC people will talk shit about you, then secretly listen everywhere you speak, convinced every word is about them. That’s the curse of a guilty conscience: always restless, always paranoid, always exposing themselves