Every girl should be financially independent before marriage. No matter how rich her husband is/will, earn for yourself. If sm1 uses your love, drains your energy, makes you feel small, and thinks earning money excuses everything, financial independence gives you the freedom
tbh i can never sympathise with men. how are you still a loser in a system that has literally favoured you over everyone and everything since the dawn of time ????
As a parent you shouldn't be telling your kids that you sacrificed your life for them, It’s hurtful and manipulative, and it’s not true. You chose to have your kids and nobody forced you to have them. Taking care of them is your responsibility.
Don’t put your private life on social media. Prophet Ya’qub even told Yusuf (as) not to share his dream with his own brothers. If we’re taught to be careful even within family, imagine how much more careful we should be with the world. Not everything precious needs to be posted.
Omar Suleiman in one of his Ramadan series episode said;
If Allah can be patient, waiting for you to return to Him and doesn’t punish you immediately after you commit a sin, why can’t you be patient with His plans and trust Him over your own desires?
Allahumma inni as'aluka rizq that flows into my life like Zamzam, constant, pure, and never running dry. Bless me with rizq that is abundant beyond what I can imagine, arriving in ways I never expect, and reaching me with ease, without struggle, at the right time.