Do the opposite of the average person, and you'll be successful:
Stop following rage-baiters. Don't get mixed up in politics. Be kind to everyone. Be optimistic. Do insanely good work always. Eat well, sleep well, and train hard.
Great lives are remarkably simple.
You’re not overwhelmed because life is hard, you’re overwhelmed because your mind is undisciplined. You entertain every impulse, chase every thought, respond to every emotion. Until you build a filter for what deserves your energy, life will feel heavier than it is.
One of the most valuable skills in life is being able to see another person's perspective.
If you're going to someone's house, think about how it might feel to be the host. If you're creating a product, spend as much time as possible thinking like the customer. If you're calling customer service, think about how it might feel to be on the other end of the conversation.
The more clearly you understand the viewpoint of your spouse or customer or coworker, the better positioned you are to find a solution.
"The world is not designed to give you a good life. It's designed to distract you from building one."
Real banger by @MattyFusaro
Put on blinders and build.
Jensen Huang said it right:
“Greatness does not come out of intelligence, it comes from character. Character is not formed out of smart people, it is formed out of people who have suffered.”
there’s a lot of modern snake oil salesmen who sell masculinity to young men.
but this is the most masculine, honest, real conversation i have seen between two men.
The older I get, the more I realize how many people waste their entire lives waiting to feel ready. Gathering more information. Creating the perfect plan. Simulating progress. Convincing themselves they’ll start tomorrow. Readiness is a myth. Action creates clarity. Do the thing.
If you don’t know where to focus, always focus on these two things:
1. Operating with integrity
2. Providing value
Being a person of integrity who genuinely provides value, never goes out of style...and builds a reputation you can't buy.
People say you have to "enjoy the process" of creating a successful business/career, but sometimes the "process" really sucks.
It is hard, lonely, and requires a lot of sacrifice.
There are good, energizing, amazing things too...
But nowhere near "enjoying it all."
Get real.
Nobody “finds” their passion.
You try things. Most of them you’ll hate.
You stick around long enough to find the one thing you can at least tolerate.
Then you go all in.
That’s the whole process.
Years of sucking before it feels like passion.