Samandeya

Tatted / Fitness / Pet Mom / Traveler / Photographer / Virgo / 27

[K E L L I @thatkelligirll]

i don't want anyone in my life who can't defend me in a room i'm not in

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

@LAPsycho_ @TerminatorTR06 @novopsi That right there is the point I think everyone is missing. How do we know he was waiting for her and it wasn't spontaneous???

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

@Kalwins @novopsi How the fuck is any of that relevant

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

You know whats sad, yall so badly wanna be right. A celeb yall seem to care for so much for want to be right in a negative way about her relationship. Tbh I'm hoping that isn't the case I'm hoping for a positive out come for them. If he did he did. But it's the assuming for me

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

@novopsi What if... she's with him cus they became friends when she was younger, and they stayed friends, he understands her, she trusts him, she feels comfortable sharing personal things with him, he already was there to watch her become who she is. No one has proof he groomed her.

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

@capycapymj @azadeh18 @Molly87907789 @ArryPotHead1 @novopsi I literally have friends that are 14yr girls that I used to teach. I was their teacher, is that grooming too? So it's just across the board not ok for anyone who is above 21 to talk to minors.

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

Is it grooming if he didn't have intentions of dating feom the start? Or like staying single waiting for her, If he did, why wait till 20 and not 18. Also every state has a different age of consent. We're not talking abt a 9yr girl. We're talking about a 15yr girl who is now 20.

[heath✨ @heathgarcia_]

so you agree. he groomed her.

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

@azadeh18 @Molly87907789 @ArryPotHead1 @novopsi Exactly. Any thing is possible.

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

@Molly87907789 @azadeh18 @ArryPotHead1 @novopsi I get what everyone is saying. I'm not defending him. Not saying grooming isn't wrong. Just saying maybe it wasn't malicious. it's a 2 way street it's not like he forced her to talk to him forced her to date him. Children can also make their own choices, like to talk to an adult

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

@TeyK47_ @novopsi My grandparents were 10 years apart in age, and i know other couples with similar gaps. One of my friends is 22 dating a 31yr.... I literally see people out here as sugar babies 18 and 21 yr old girls getting with 50yr plus men. But yet were supposed to be ok with that...

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

@TheLochNessyy @novopsi Who said he did it (know her or be her friend) this whole time with intent on dating her one day? Like how do we know, He was like mmm yes I'll talk to this 15yr for the next 5 years and then make her mine. No one knows the situation 100%.

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

@ASTR0MANCY Not defending askign questions, cause everyone jumping to conclusions. He could have groomed her. It's possible. But do we know for 100% sure. No. Maybe it's a publicity stunt. You never know.

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

@Quiickdry @buggabunnie @LAPsycho_ @novopsi I just wanted to strike up people thoughts, everyone took the immediate worst outlook. Like what if she approached him, what if she just likes older men, more traditional morals, more old school thinking. I mean have you met current 20 year olds?

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

@TheLochNessyy @novopsi Are yall sure yall know what grooming is, the literally definition. Is where a older person takes a minor and prepares them for a certain situation. Most of the time it's arranged marriage, or it starts at a really young age. But he could have? Maybe you should ask him for us.

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

@ArryPotHead1 @novopsi It is just a point of view. Maybe they never spoke much the whole time after meeting and ran into each other an hit it off? I'm not defending anyone or taking any side.

[Samandeya @sjayenowels]

Lmao

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[introvert @livewithnoregrt]

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