I was having an issue one time and I decided to speak to my cousin about it.
He advised me to stop feeding that particular situation by giving it attention and instantly it died a natural death.
We get into too much issue/headache because we go back and forth with a lot of nonsense.
Too much disclaimer, too much debunking, too much press statement.
“They set Poco up”, “it’s the devil”
Lmao jokers, if many of you were in the UK, US or Canada, you’d have been arrested for assault too lmao I mean I see your tweets.
Consent has been explained on this TL 356 times yet y’all still do “what was she wearing” “wetin she go do for hotel” each time a man is outed for sexual assault. You never understand bodily autonomy, you think prostitutes can’t be raped, cos “na ashewo” you think short skirts mean consent, you think hotel visits mean consent, you think raunchy videos posted online mean consent, you think clubbing with a man means consent, you openly talk about grooming 17 year olds, better remain in Nigeria or you will be fuckin arrested too.
I don’t know if Pocolee is guilty or not, I will wait for the facts but if he is just like the average Nigerian man: the one that calls you a ‘simp’ for asking him to be decent in dealing with women, the one that vehemently refuses to unlearn archaic practices that won’t fly anywhere else, Im willing to hazard a guess & my guess is; “guilty” I’m sorry.
A young rich Anambra dude said he’s interested in my cousin. She looked at my face and we laughed for like 15 minutes. Let them hold their money abeg. It’s not my own blood that would be rich in cash and poor in every other thing.
If you want to dance, eat, drink, have a great time and still have some of your salary left, head to The Cabin in Surulere. 😂
Get there around 9pm and leave by 1:30am. I stopped going out because I’m very particular about music but I was really impressed yesterday.
I see the way some of you speak so derogatorily about people running certain small businesses and I just shake my head. There’s this strange tendency to look down on businesses like selling wigs, doing lashes or other forms of small-scale entrepreneurship as though they’re somehow beneath people. It’s also interesting how this contempt show up when the businesses are dominated by women.