I have 1000+ followers on IG, bunch of friends and a partner during school days, countless memories of hanging out, organizing events, playing games together, etc.
But now 6 years later, that number means nothing. Now i forced to live lame routine with almost no one to talk to.
tapi yaa... menurut gua, tiba-tiba ngilang itu bukan closure. it's just a lack of saying goodbye. emang susah buat jujur, emang gak nyaman buat ngomong hal yg nyakitin, but choosing to disappear is still a choice. dan sayangnya, yang ditinggalkan sering kali-
Self-Censorship.
Ketika pemerintah sebegitu digdaya dalam mengendalikan aparat dan instrumen negara lainnya untuk mengekang rakyat, maka individu rakyat atau orang disekitarnya yang bakal "ngerem" dengan sendirinya semata atas rasa takut.
Ini udah ciri2 kediktatoran.
π€ cegah antrian BBM panjang di Bali, gubernur Bali minta SPBU beroperasi 24 jam. lalu petugas SPBU protes kecapekan kerja, tapi malah dibentak gubernur.
"HEH DIAM KAMU"
"HEH USIR PEGAWAI KAMU TUH!"
One of my friends got ghosted BY HIS GIRLFRIEND. Like one day he woke up and she had blocked him on everything. This wasnβt some fling either, theyβd been together for a year. Itβs been over six years and he still hasnβt fully recovered. I truly do not understand ghosting.
Gw tau ini gak baik, tapi gw gabisa deny bahwa
Gw nyesek ngeliat temen2 pada punya pencapaian
Gw nyesek ngeliat temen2 pada bahagia sama pasangannya
Mesti gimana ya?