someone asked me how do i โstay positiveโ and girl, the answer is i donโt. i donโt force myself to โstayโ anything. i let myself feel. i let myself flow. i allow myself to have shitty days. once i get thru that, i pull myself together & remember there are goals to meet.
I swear once you find your person, no one even interests you anymore. like fr lol no one has the same vibe, no one matches your energy as much as they do. everything is just better with them. and not just relationship wise, friendships as well.
I keep my distance from people who donโt recognise a pattern within themselves, and how it negatively impacts their connections. it doesnโt matter if they say they are working on it, only their actions are evidence of true change to me. otherwise cycles just continue with them.
iโm tipsy & i feel likeโฆ fuck it you know? just do you man. the right people, jobs & vibes will find you. might take some time but itโll come. just vibe thru it. find a hobby, try many. fail & fail again until you succeed. enjoy the sun & the rain. find ways to love your life.
READ IT AND LET IT SINK IN
Every relationship will get " boring" after you've been together for years. Love isn't a feeling it's a commitment to love every day, physically and emotionally. It's difficult, it's not always laughs, smiles, and fun.