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[Whitequeen 🕉 @sunoz2212]

@NoFilterSkin That’s a thoughtful way to look at it .

[Whitequeen 🕉 @sunoz2212]

@seriousfunnyguy *parents

[Whitequeen 🕉 @sunoz2212]

@seriousfunnyguy Neither Virat nor the kid is at fault. It’s the parenting who themselves do celebrity worship and hence passing on these things to kids to parents.

[Whitequeen 🕉 @sunoz2212]

@Elaa_ampe5 Understand the difference between wedding and marriage. Some get married just because of the dream wedding. Wedding is a one day affair but marriage is lifelong affair and you need to work on it in daily basis as a team with love, trust and respect as a foundation.

[Whitequeen 🕉 @sunoz2212]

Social media is no more social media that it used to be about friends and family whether it is fb/Insta/x. Now it’s all about watching reels/ shorts/ videos of strangers and mostly someone selling something.

[Whitequeen 🕉 @sunoz2212]

This is so well described. Soaking every moment and thanks for such timely reminders especially when things get so exhausting. The last line is so wholesome ❤️

[Matthew Kobach @mkobach]

Every morning at 5:30am my 4-year-old jumps into my bed and is so excited to see me he can’t help but talk my ear off.

Every morning my 2-year-old demands that I lay on the couch in front of him so he can use me as a pillow.

My 4-year-old rushes to show me every rock, flower, or trinket he finds because he’s so excited by it and knows that I will be too.

No matter how minor the “injury”, my 2-year-old will present me with the injuried body part and demand I “kiss it.” Which instantly heals it.

Every time my 4-year-old asks to race, I let him win. He couldn’t be more proud that he’s faster than Dada.

My 2-year-old can’t leave a room without demanding that “Dada come!” And I’m expected to follow him.

When my 4-year-old is on my shoulders, my 2-year-old gets so jealous that I have to carry him too.

I can’t do any project around the house without both boys demanding to help me.

Sometimes it’s exhausting. But I’ll relax when they’re older.

[Whitequeen 🕉 @sunoz2212]

@drsunita02 Hence Lee the merrier abroad when basic needs are taken care of and mental stress is off with a good life work balance .

[Whitequeen 🕉 @sunoz2212]

@drsunita02 Playmates in initial years and once they turn adults are parents are long gone, at least their kids have someone who is theirs who they can lean on , share etc . Initially years are hard for parents to manage kids but eventually it all gets better ( mostly)….

[Whitequeen 🕉 @sunoz2212]

@Kgadi_yaMoloto Dark

[Whitequeen 🕉 @sunoz2212]

@Drnaturalcare Green Amarathus or called ‘Chaulai’ in India. It’s a weed but used as a ‘saag’ and is highly nutritious.

[Whitequeen 🕉 @sunoz2212]

@dame__betty Add breastfeeding, taking care of the newborn and roller coaster of hormones which is another ball game. No other major surgery expects a patient to take care of another human being in a couple of hours . Also , good luck if you have a toddler at home.

[Giga Based Dad @GigaBasedDad]

CS Lewis understood

[Mr PitBull Stories @MrPitbull07]

In a mother’s womb were two babies. One asked the other: “Do you believe in life after delivery?”The other replied, “Why, of course. There has to be something after delivery. Maybe we are here to prepare ourselves for what we will be later.”
“Nonsense,” said the first. “There is no life after delivery. What kind of life would that be?”
The second said, “I don’t know, but there will be more light than here. Maybe we will walk with our legs and eat from our mouths. Maybe we will have other senses that we can’t understand now.”
The first replied, “That is absurd. Walking is impossible. And eating with our mouths? Ridiculous! The umbilical cord supplies nutrition and everything we need. But the umbilical cord is so short. Life after delivery is to be logically excluded.”
The second insisted, “Well I think there is something and maybe it’s different than it is here. Maybe we won’t need this physical cord anymore.”
The first replied, “Nonsense. And moreover, if there is life, then why has no one ever come back from there? Delivery is the end of life, and in the after-delivery, there is nothing but darkness and silence and oblivion. It takes us nowhere.”
“Well, I don’t know,” said the second, “but certainly we will meet Mother and she will take care of us.”
The first replied “Mother? You actually believe in Mother? That’s laughable. If Mother exists then where is She now?”
The second said, “She is all around us. We are surrounded by her. We are of Her. It is in Her that we live. Without Her, this world would not and could not exist.”
Said the first: “Well I don’t see Her, so it is only logical that She doesn’t exist.”
To which the second replied, “Sometimes, when you’re in silence and you focus and listen, you can perceive Her presence, and you can hear Her loving voice, calling down from above.”
Maybe this was one of the best explanations of the concept of GOD.
– this lovely parable is from Your Sacred Self by Dr. Wayne Dyer 🙏

[Whitequeen 🕉 @sunoz2212]

Women unlock their sacred feminine wisdom as they age. Stop chasing the modern female youth which is prized in today’s world instead of the ultimate divine being that u r becoming. Love yourself . Only a few are given the privilege of getting old. Don it with grace and dignity.

[Whitequeen 🕉 @sunoz2212]

How do these toddlers get so much energy inspite of eating nothing ?

[Massimo @Rainmaker1973]

A baby’s brain interprets a mother’s absence as a survival threat — triggering a rapid, massive surge in cortisol.

When an infant cannot find or sense their primary caregiver, the response is far more than emotional distress: the brain registers it as an immediate life-threatening emergency.

Studies show that separation activates the infant’s stress response system almost instantly. Within less than 60 seconds, levels of cortisol — the body’s main stress hormone — can spike by 200–300%.

This dramatic physiological reaction is not a learned behavior or a sign of “difficult” temperament. It is a deeply hard-wired, evolutionarily ancient mechanism designed to compel urgent reconnection with the caregiver, ensuring the infant’s survival.

For a developing baby, safety is biologically synonymous with the physical presence of the primary attachment figure. What appears as intense crying or panic is actually a finely tuned neurobiological alarm system that ramps up alertness, mobilizes energy, and drives behaviors aimed at restoring proximity and security.

Recognizing that these powerful responses stem from fundamental biology — rather than personality — highlights just how critical early caregiver connection is for healthy emotional and physiological development.

[Bernard, K., Lee, A. H., & Dozier, M. (2023). "Maternal separation and cortisol response in 12-month-old infants: A longitudinal study." Developmental Psychobiology, 65(1), e22345.
DOI: 10.1002/dev.22345]

[Aravind @aravind]

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[Michael Antonelli @BullandBaird]

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[Whitequeen 🕉 @sunoz2212]

No one is going to love you exactly the way you want them to love. Just notice their way of loving and appreciate it. That would encourage them to love you more - Lifehack/ lovehack