This whole conversation around boyfriends and roommates just further lets me know that I need to keep saving my money so I can live alone. Bc the fuck do you mean it’s a grown ass man in my house not paying no bills over here every weekend are yall fucking crazy
whats crazy is i thought pat & gavin where the healthiest couple but his ass met karma for blaming his wife on their child’s death. He seen how driving stressed & emotional is dangerous while he was blaming her.
You can’t let somebody with poor emotional regulation make you responsible for all of their reactions and emotions. Of course, as human beings, we shouldn’t go around provoking people, intentionally pushing buttons or being careless with how we handle them, but if you’re already approaching somebody with consideration, compassion and empathy, and they’re still getting triggered by things that come from their past, their own perception or the meaning they’ve attached to something, it becomes unfair for them to place 100% of the blame for how they feel and how they react onto you.
some of the hardest things to accept ain’t what people did to me, but what i allowed myself to endure because i believed there was something good waiting on the other side. sometimes the lesson costs more than the person was ever worth.
I think my short fuse and intolerance for disrespect stems from the fact that I just do not disrespect ppl, so I am absolutely floored when ppl try me. My immediate reaction is that you must hate my guts or be evil
It’s really time for men to start being serious with themselves. Cause never have I ever had sex with someone and thought negatively against their worth directly afterwards. That’s how you feel about yourself!