That Cute Queen

[AI Tales @AITales1]

@Ugo_comm @mynne000 But that is what you expect her to do when u are providing! Y’all really know what you are doing!

[That Cute Queen @that_cutequeen]

Lol. My opinion wasn’t for just the woman. You people act like marriage is the only achievement in life. But it’s still same marriages that crash because of financial issues.

So how does quitting her job help her? She’s clearly a career based woman. He knows that. They need to come to a compromise that suits both or they walk away. Life isn’t that hard.

[That Cute Queen @that_cutequeen]

Dissect please. I said what I said. She should uproot her life for her intended husband. Okay and then what? What next? Happily ever after right? Cause life is just all sweet and rosy.

The same Agba you’re referencing here made a tweet about how he regrets not listening to his wife when she advised hik
To buy land. What does that mean? He can be wrong. So your “Agba and what other matured people see” talk you mentioned doesn’t have much weight. I didn’t claim to know all. Thats my opinion. They don’t have to follow it. But there’s a lot to consider.

[That Cute Queen @that_cutequeen]

@Ebenezerlamotu1 @jon_d_doe Grammar and pidgin

[That Cute Queen @that_cutequeen]

@ChrisKhella @OluFatoki_ @jon_d_doe Ok. But you did?

[That Cute Queen @that_cutequeen]

@TalkswithAkwa But that’s what some women want😩

[That Cute Queen @that_cutequeen]

@MrMekzy_ Ha Mr Mekzy that one applies to you oh. See how you show us you Cook and make zobo on this app, what’s the percentage of men that can do all that. Hmm they are there but they aren’t much.

[That Cute Queen @that_cutequeen]

@Zeus_tech_hub @jon_d_doe You’re not the man or woman in question so at the end of the day, it doesn’t concern you

[That Cute Queen @that_cutequeen]

@OluFatoki_ @jon_d_doe People on this platform always quick
To insult but they don’t add anything to
The conversation

[That Cute Queen @that_cutequeen]

@redywriterz @jon_d_doe It's multifaceted and it's there.

[That Cute Queen @that_cutequeen]

@iTEC35 @jon_d_doe I'm not arguing. I literally agreed with him that that's their only compromise. A long distance relationship if they can handle it. I was responding to the whole post including Agba's suggestion

[That Cute Queen @that_cutequeen]

@iamkalvinnn @jon_d_doe yes so they wait till then and it should be her personal decision before she blames the man later. Before he'll start hearing "I quit my good job for you" "Ive not found a remote job and it's your fault" All those kind of things.

[𝓝. @NuneStarkie]

Being a woman:

You're born
You start feeling fat at 8 even though you look like a normal healthy child
You start dieting at 9
Boys treat you badly if they don't like you
You grow up, you get to your teens
You feel ugly every day
You get bombarded with more and more extreme beauty standards every day
You grow up, you expect to fall in love
You are told every day that cheating is natural in men
Married men hit on you
Men with children hit on you
People value you for your beauty only
If you are also intelligent, they still value your beauty more
You try your best to believe that some men are different and they care about you in other ways
You get news every single day of athletes and famous people and random ordinary people who have cheated
You get told all the time that you expire in your 30s-40s
You see people saying how "they understand" that some CEO cheated with a more beautiful woman
You spend your entire life scared that the man you love might have been settling for you because he couldn't get the "more beautiful" woman he actually wanted
Even when you're the "dream woman" of a man, you still get scared that he might cheat because that also happens all the time
You're constantly reminded that one day you'll be the "old expired" wife of a man and he might go for younger and more beautiful
You're constantly told that you can't "let yourself go" or else you deserve to be cheated on
You're constantly the target of anti-aging products ever since you were a teen
You get told that the effects of pregnancy will make you undesirable to your husband and he might start seeing you as a baby maker only
You get to your 50s and you're constantly dieting while having grown ass immature sons writing stuff on the internet about how women your age are worthless and ugly
You grow old and you can't help but feel that your most "valuable" asset (your beauty) will keep slipping through your hands inevitably
Your entire life you've been told your only value was how attractive you were and you start feeling worthless
Women experience more depression than men
Women try more suicide attempts than men and the only reason men die more is because their methods are more aggressive. But women are more suicidal
You're old and your husband is now checking teenagers as he walks
You will never be enough as a woman.

People wonder why women start saying things like "why would I care about what a man wants?" and they use that opportunity to again say that "we're gonna die single because we don't care about being what men want in a woman".

Men need to understand that we're tired and that's why the most sane thing we can do is stop caring. It is impossible to be good enough as a woman, so we stop trying to be.

[That Cute Queen @that_cutequeen]

Also if we want to agree that many men want more than one woman, we can also agree that many women just want one man to love and cherish and they wish that man will love them alone and they get hurt if he gets with another woman. So how do we merge the two? The only way I see it which isn’t really a solution is for men to hide their affairs. Your woman wants to believe she’s the only one, you want to have more than one, the least you can do is hide it very well and take it to your grave. Don’t let her find out so she can wallow in her delusion that you chose Only her and you can enjoy all
The different women you want in secrecy. I honestly can’t think of any better way to merge the two

[That Cute Queen @that_cutequeen]

@redhairshanks86 The question is who does this benefit? Does the rule also apply to the women? Thats the issue. Imbalance

[Kristy Tillman @KristyT]

4. If your wife is not a smoking hot IG baddie 10, apparently she deserves to be cheated on even though you chose her and knew what she looked like before saying "I Do".

[That Cute Queen @that_cutequeen]

@KursiyaBinga @CfcTem @YouCanCallMeOma @jon_d_doee Gbam

[Kursiya Binga @KursiyaBinga]

@CfcTem @YouCanCallMeOma @jon_d_doee You get baa...
...he probably has his own selfish plans.

And why is he only publishing her angry replies???

I don't trust people who would fight and only share the portions of the fight that makes the other look bad.

You vex babe, she misyarn, you turn am to her identity.

[PRIEST SABO🅰️ @SaboPriest]

My advice is for the babe: end the relationship and move on with your life.
Look at it well. The earlier agreement was that they’d travel, marry over there, have kids, and settle. That plan always had both of them going. He’s the one who went back on it and renegotiated to “go first and come back in two years.” Two years of what for her? Waiting in Nigeria with no guarantee?
Then he said money was the issue. Fair enough. But the moment her parents and brother said they’d fund her process themselves, the excuse changed. So it was never really about money.

Ask yourself: would you tell your own sister not to relocate when her family is ready to sponsor her, just so she can wait for a man? Be honest.

And what did she even say? That she’d go there, work hard, and support him. That’s a woman who just wants to be with the man she calls hers. If he can’t see that, she should go and build her life without him.
Dem no dey advise people wey dey in love sha 🤷🏾‍♂️