black people who go "it's not that deep" towards other black people expressing their issues with microaggressions are some of the most insufferable people ive had to see
Sometimes people start dressing like you were dressing two years ago and for some reason this makes you angry and you feel the need to tell people about it. That is the devil speaking. He is trying to make you sound like a loser who is also insane.
outfit atleast $100, makeup products like $500 (over time), hair $350, etc etc. we spend $75 on a random weekend for an evening/night out with our friends. like please.
i feel like i’ve heard this exact story from so many people: someone tries to recite a traumatic memory/a memory of their parent being cruel or mean, only for the parent to respond with “i don’t remember that.” or “that didn’t happen.” what’s up with this? why is it so common?
my mom telling me she's only alive because she wants to see me succeed and not live a life like hers vs me who is only alive cause i don't want her life afterwards to be hard for her
my mom shouldn’t be allowed to watch the news because sometimes she’ll look at me like 🙁 and say “i’d never kill you. if you tried to kill me i wouldn’t even fight back very hard” and i’ll have to say What the fuck did you read now
This is the white ghetto that racists don't want us to see. High welfare use, single moms, inbreeding, drug and alcohol abuse. It represents what life is like for millions of whites but the media only focuses on denigrating Black Americans.
the older i get the more i realize that some people aren’t mysterious, complicated, or difficult to understand. they’re just profoundly inconsiderate and completely convinced their behavior requires everyone else to be understanding.
Adult bullying is an under-recognized form of abuse. It manifests as gossip, exclusion, smear campaigns, professional & personal reputation damage, and emotional manipulation. It’s not just “conflict” or “personality clashes” it’s a targeted effort to control and diminish others
i hate callout culture i hate the obsessive need to purity test every person alive i hate how easily someone changes from being a person to being an acceptable target i hate how little it takes to justify ruining someones life permanently
i left my friends wedding kinda early cos i had a long drive back + i was feeling crazy out of place and anxious but she texted me the next morning and i 🥲