I love how basically every study shows that students do better with less homework and workers perform better with more vacation days and shorter shifts, yet we do the exact opposite because of outdated, guilt-driven “work is suffering” values and toxic hustle culture.
not necessarily… when i confront someone i genuinely want to know where the disconnect is between us. instead, ppl take it as an attack on their character. that’s where the gaslighting starts.
I feel like people don't understand that confrontation is, in fact, an act of grace. I'm putting an issue to you because I care. This is me giving you the benefit of a doubt. It's an opportunity to share your perspective and for us to reach a conclusion.
HOLY LAAAAARP! scene punk itu secara historis adalah safe zone bagi kaum marjinal. salah satu nilai subkultur ini ya nrimo mereka yg dianggap “berbeda” sama masyarakat arus utama
you can’t be punk if you’re homophobic
you made the best decision you could with the information you had back then. it only looks wrong now because you know more
that’s okay. don’t dwell too much on yesterday. take the lesson and live in the present
i love watching people become more of who they already are. the friend who starts dressing differently. the quiet person who discovers their voice. the artist who stops asking permission. there's something sacred about witnessing somebody become less afraid of their own life.