Tobi Kuti

To be, rather than to seem.

[Tobi Kuti @tobikuti_]

@MohAli___ To anyone who wants to teach in the UK or already is and hates it, I recommend this book, or the movie.

You will thank me.

[Tunde Salami @Tundesalamii]

Ife, you’ve become a problem for younger women and the generation watching you. You began your journey as the relatable girl next door. You built your platform by presenting yourself as a faceless, timid girl afraid of body‑shaming and judgment. The girl who believed she was too old to find love.

A community embraced you, amplified your voice and helped transform that vulnerability into influence. That journey is precisely why your words now carry considerably more weight than the opinions of an ordinary person online.

You also found a partner. That man has been openly, consistently and publicly expressive about his love and support for you. In a world where men are criticised for emotional unavailability he showed up visibly. And in return, through your words and the posture you have adopted on your platform, you have continuously diminished him subtly and sometimes not so subtly, to a point where a significant number of people online no longer see him as his own person.

He has been reduced to either a dancer or simply Ife's husband. A man who could have stood as his own force has been quietly hollowed out by the platform of the woman he publicly champions. That is worth sitting with. But, let’s leave him aside for now.

Back to you.

You rose from a humble girl to the leader of a community that many young women admired. But instead of using that influence responsibly, you began promoting ideas that mislead the same girls who trusted you. The shift was clear. From commentary on surrogacy and pregnancy, to your stance on weddings, to your take on Lindsay Clancy, you have moved from mentorship to agenda‑pushing, and the agenda is consistently shallow.

Did you sit with this issue honestly? Did you not realise something dangerous? If Lindsay is freed, it creates a precedent that can tear down the very foundation of equality women have fought for. Because once the law accepts “hormones” or “psychosis” as a blanket excuse for killing children, anyone can weaponise it. A neighbour could murder your child, claim postpartum and walk free. How would that ever be justice? Did you think about the children themselves. Do their lives not matter? Do they not deserve justice?

My issue with you isn’t that you have opinions. It’s the quality of those opinions. They lack depth, research, and intellectual grounding. It’s obvious you don’t read, you don’t study, and you don’t seek balanced perspectives, not even from the MAN BESIDE YOU. You wake up, react emotionally, and broadcast unexamined takes to an audience that believes you’re guiding them. I want to assume this is ignorance, not intentional manipulation.

Note, the era of men remaining silent while this kind of content goes unchallenged is over. Those women are our sisters. Some will become our wives. Some will raise our children. We have both the right and the responsibility to offer a counter perspective clearly, consistently and without apology, and to leave it to them to weigh both sides and decide.

We are not here to cancel you. We are here to ensure that your voice is not the only one they hear. We refuse to allow your careless messaging to shape an entire generation of vulnerable young women.

Our objective is not to tell women what to think. It is to ensure that no influencer gets to do their thinking for them. So when I disagree with you, I will challenge the argument rather than your right to speak. Where your reasoning is sound, it should survive scrutiny. Where it is not, it should be challenged. And ultimately, the audience can examine both positions and decide for themselves.

Influence is powerful, Ife. But the greater the influence, the greater the obligation to ensure that what you pour into impressionable minds is informed by knowledge, intellectual humility and serious reflection AND NOT EMOTIONS.

[Tobi Kuti @tobikuti_]

@boy_director You still wan carry rebel behaviour enter church department again? 😂

[CNN International @cnni]

For generations, Christian mission flowed primarily from Europe and North America to Africa. But now the traffic is two-way.

"For us here in Africa, it is the fervency and the zeal with which we do it. There's an African passion and stamina," Nigerian pastor Jerry Eze said, adding, "the fire is leaving the West." https://t.co/1hZZVToQKt

[TG OMORI @boy_director]

ADML - GREATMAN TAKIT. THIS FRIDAY.

[Mr Piccolo @iamchrizten]

This is a must watch for ladies.

[Christian1985 @Christian19856]

I wasn't myself after watching this message by Pastor Dolapo.. #christian #deus #anointing #holyspirit #christian19856

[Tobi Peter @Tobipeter8]

Even Spider-Man no dey call Ironman Tony

[eLDee @eLDeeTheDon]

What if people are not really defending creativity? What if they are defending difficulty?

The typewriter did not make writing more creative. The synthesizer did not destroy musicianship. The drum machine did not kill rhythm. Each tool simply made creation accessible to more people. AI is simply doing the same thing to music. Most defenders/gatekeepers of music creation difficulty as a measure of creativity today use computer generated music instruments, drum machines, synths, vocal tuning plugins, computer generated reverb, EQ, compression and all the mixing and mastering effects available in music generation software but somehow, a tool that simplifies the creation further is where they want to draw the line?

[Tracy @beekmanplace78]

If you no longer love your partner that’s okay, but then leave the relationship.

[U.S. Mission Nigeria @USinNigeria]

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Learn more: https://t.co/rThzLldE64

[Tobi Kuti @tobikuti_]

@JoePaulGians @lichthauch Apt

[LIMOBLAZE OMO JESU @Limoblaze]

Presenting the next generation of Christian creatives through #Youngandchosenbloom

Meet 19 year old Teninlanimi with her first single release 😤

[Alex Onyia @winexviv]

The wait is over.

We have 2 golds: Chimdiebube Onwubiko and Don Anele Munachimso.

We are the best in the world!

Egejurum Onyedikachi’s name was omitted. He should have a gold.

[Tobi Kuti @tobikuti_]

@NOIweala @wto Beautiful 😍

[Wholesome @wholesome_X_]

Life is more beautiful when you have friends who know how to be friends.

[Tobi Kuti @tobikuti_]

@0xChess @choice_ik @Morris_Monye Back then, the EFCC investigates governors long after their tenure.

Maybe they still do, but I remember this was a thing back then, so she's still spot on.

[camille @camiicampb]

one day yall are going to learn to stop opening doors to the spiritual world without the authority and approval of Jesus Christ. when you access the spiritual world illegally there are real consequences. you wonder why your life is in shambles but you're using tarot cards, doing ifa and santeria, casting spells on people, worshipping the dead. there are consequences that come with this and i know because i lived it as a former witch

[CooperBaggs 💰🍞 @edgaralandough]

Lukewarm take: we need to stop using mental health/therapy buzzwords in day to day life. Not everyone you dislike is a narcissist. Being sad doesn’t mean you’re depressed. There’s a resounding difference between being nervous and having anxiety. You’re not ADHD because you don’t like to sit still. You’re not autistic because you’re quirky. OCD doesn’t mean you’re organized. And for the love of all that is holy, not every situation that made you uncomfortable is “trauma”.

[Tobi Kuti @tobikuti_]

@jay_mikee Where the trauma babies at? 😂