Abusive people are rarely just abusive.
They can also be kind, fun, and loving.
That’s why it’s so hard to leave.
It’s like being with two very different people.
You love one and fear another.
You never know which one you’ll get.
someone who is unwilling to change, won’t respond to your requests to. there’s a book called ‘good boundaries and goodbyes’ and it states: changed behaviours are good unless they are a temporary performance with a relapse waiting to happen in the wings.
Men will rlly want and lust after a hot & independent woman until they actually have her & then they get insecure and try 2 cage her and water her down lmao
Don’t wait for something outside of you to change how you feel inside of you. Self-worth (like self-respect and self-esteem) all start with 'self', as you can't find them in anyone else. They are the fruit of self-discipline. Work hard. Keep learning. Stay humble.
use your life force well
probably no one ever dies wishing they'd spent more time being angry on the internet, or obsessing about the scandal of the hour
You matter. You’re enough. Your presence in this world makes a difference, whether you see it or not. We can always improve, but remember this: You are enough not because you did or said or bought or thought or became or created something special, but because you always were.
“iM iNdEpEnDeNt I dOnT nEeD aNyOnE” ok well I’m tryna rent an air bnb for a vacation that I’m taking myself on and someone to split the cost with would be great so