Here’s an interesting 1961 @BBCArchive video in which some very level-headed South London school girls are not impressed with their new school & give the architect a deferentially tough time.
Illustrates 2 themes ....
@RichDecibels hello good sir, I just wanted to tell you that the link to your Patterns course on richdecibels com is currently very non-dually pointing at the void (I did find it on thehum now)
This unhinged idea is critical to the proposition that surveys are meaningful - that there is A Meaning of e.g. “Are you a risk-taker?” that is reflected in Likert scale responses.
@lisatomic5 for some kinds of cringe, it can feel like the crinhe is my own resistance against liking the other person, a kind of renunciation. "there IS something loveable, pure and attractive about what they're doing, but if I'd join them I'd fear social punishment"
https://t.co/BZSbwr0lgT
PSA: If you keep thinking about it, write it down, set an alarm, emotionally process it (somatically, not narratively), make a decision.
Looping is a sign of something that doesn't fit in working memory. Ignore your own assumption that it is trivial.
@impartialpim feeling this itch to extend the list with another gem by a certain @impartialpim, since this lived rent free in my head for weeks: tiredness without fight is relaxation..? 🙏 https://t.co/oHSiO9tTtG
several noncoercive parenting wins today: we went to the dentist for the first time and his verdict was “how fun!” and then I let him paint my bare chest with brown paint and wipe it to make it acceptable for me to clean his butt
My pillars of parenting:
1. It’s OK to want behavior from a child. But any feeling that they MUST behave someway is toxic, even not expressed, even in subtlest form. Address any such sense with meditation to thoroughly release.
Then can you can truly advise instead of command.
@kryptokommunist There is a deep link there to the question Christopher Alexander asks to identify good (healthy, humane) architecture https://t.co/eqVsyiY7nK
@PaulVanderKlay @vervaeke_john @PageauJonathan he starts using a peculiar kind of experiment: "a person would attempt to judge the quality of an action, or a building, or a painting, by consulting his own self, as to the degree of wholeness, or healed-ness, that appeared in the items under discussion"